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ElectricBlue (original poster member #35110) posted at 1:11 AM on Friday, July 20th, 2012
Can anyone recommend any they've read that they were impressed with? I figure even if he can't communicate maybe I can learn how.
I'm the BW, 3 DDays since 2010....
6/28/12, the day I finally admitted to myself that nothing I did would ever matter to him, he's just broken. So I'm gonna just let go.....
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 1:30 AM on Friday, July 20th, 2012
"Getting the Love You Want" by Harville Hendrix.
The book has several exercises in the back, but I'd recommend getting the separate exercise book to go with the reading book. The seperate one has better descriiptions and a few more exercises than what is given in the abbreviated, back of the book version.
We bought two copies of the book and read a chapter each week. Then we'd do the exercises as we moved through the book. We ended up liking the experience so much we saw an Imago therapist for our MC.
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
ElectricBlue (original poster member #35110) posted at 6:24 PM on Friday, July 20th, 2012
Thanks Fighting. 
That's one I came across several times, now it's been given a real world recommendation, always a good thing. 
I'm the BW, 3 DDays since 2010....
6/28/12, the day I finally admitted to myself that nothing I did would ever matter to him, he's just broken. So I'm gonna just let go.....
Rollercoaster ( member #1298) posted at 12:22 AM on Saturday, July 21st, 2012
I ditto "Getting the Love You Want".
Me BS 59, WS 59
Reconciled
ElectricBlue (original poster member #35110) posted at 2:32 AM on Monday, July 23rd, 2012
Thank you.
I'm the BW, 3 DDays since 2010....
6/28/12, the day I finally admitted to myself that nothing I did would ever matter to him, he's just broken. So I'm gonna just let go.....
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