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lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 9:01 PM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012
When she takes a step towards me I almost feel panicked inside because I don't know what to do about her approach.
Her actions are showing you she isn't sincere and that panicked feeling is your gut screaming at you to pay attention.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
New Joy ( member #17120) posted at 9:23 PM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012
Put aside thoughts that you had earlier on about R & think about what your gut reaction is right now. Is your paniced state & not knowing what to do about this the answer to the question about R or D?
Me - BS - 64
Him - WS - 65
Married over 40 years
Adult DS & DD
2 DD's in one that I call Double-D-Day - When confronted WH about his A he confessed to another affair years earlier.
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