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I was in my flannel nightgown wine bottle in hand and I built this huge fire with as much wood as i could haul through six inches of snow in my house slippers, shrieking with drunken laughter

Love the image, selkie. Dragging shit to the barn with your wine bottle in hand.....

@rachel--

but he's looking for one he wants

Oh stop it. It's been HOW many months now?

And seriously. I'm pretty sick of stbx's dumbass slut. She is just so stupid that I think it would be really awesome to sign her up for some animal porn. But the animal would have to speak spanish. How do I do that?

for the bighurt...this one is virtual...

http://www.pinstruck.com/

@rachel--

but he's looking for one he wants

Oh stop it. It's been HOW many months now?

4.5 months... but I'm done fighting about it. He wins. He either doesn't understand the implications of it or is punishing me...

I refused to ride in his car, the only trip I took in it was to the car dealership to trade it for a new one as she had been in it.

He bought 2 or 3 CD's on her suggestion so I broke them into little pieces and tossed them. I should have put them back in the cases and left them in his car after I broke them.

I tossed the cologne he wore when he went to see her.

I tossed the clothes he wore in either his pictures or visits to her.

I think her BS posted her name on a cheater site, I just found that one out.

Her BS and I got a kick out of making them shit just by saying something.

You see, WS and OW didn't think we were smart enough to figure things out or smart enough to compare notes.

So hilarious! I especially like the one where she drove off and left him. Hmmm. As a side note I just posted a thread about not seeking revenge...but hey I was talking about destroying the OW's life....these ideas are just kinda fun!

Hey where is the cheater site.

EEk there are so many cheater sites it boggles the mind. PM me if you want a couple links .

WH met MOW through friendsreunited. She took herself off on d-day (didn't want me to track her down, I guess..... )

When I found out her maiden name, I put myself down in her/WH's class and said although I hadn't been to that school, I thought class member should know that (inserted MOW's name) was shagging old bf's she found through the site.

I left it there for a few weeks. WH's name was still on there. He couldn't take it off because he couldn't remember what email or password he had used. I sometimes wonder who (if anyone) read it and put their names together.

[This message edited by UKgirl at 7:45 AM, September 4th (Tuesday)]

When the keylogger showed me that he kept googling how people poison their spouses with food or whatever, I started making whatever food he had read about. Since the keylogger showed exactly how much time he spent on each page, I knew which ones he read in detail. It was hysterical. He even quit eating anything that I fixed him, he wouldn't drink any coffee I made, he wouldn't even eat a frozen dinner that I warmed up. A few friends knew what I was doing and we laughed our asses off about it when we'd listen to the VARs.

OMG. You're killin' me.

One time he asked, "Where did you get the recipe?" I answered, "Oh, online somewhere, I don't remember."

I must preface this with the fact that I thought this was funny within hours...

So, first I texted him... Your personal crap in piled up in the cellar hatchway, tomorrow is trash day, it is clogging up my entrance-- draw your own conclusions.

When he came within minutes with his truck to get the stuff, I opened the bedroom window and started slinging out lingerie, "toys"- and other lets call them aids, screaming... HERE, maybe your new c--t would like these, she SEEMS to like my USED things....

Yeppers, I did....

When the keylogger showed me that he kept googling how people poison their spouses with food or whatever, I started making whatever food he had read about. Since the keylogger showed exactly how much time he spent on each page, I knew which ones he read in detail. It was hysterical. He even quit eating anything that I fixed him, he wouldn't drink any coffee I made, he wouldn't even eat a frozen dinner that I warmed up. A few friends knew what I was doing and we laughed our asses off about it when we'd listen to the VARs.

I swear I just choked on my coffee

Not sure if it is crazy, but I made him trade in his almost new car and sell his old suv. I would not ride in either seat where OW's nasty, ....., ......, ass had been. I also made him throw away his favorite fleece vest that had her cat's fur all over it. She kept a nasty house and it had cat fur rolling all over everything. He did not question either of these demands, just said done. Add these to the final tally of the cost of the A.

[This message edited by Lovedyoumore at 1:19 PM, September 4th (Tuesday)]

I took a bat to his truck window and told him I found it that way, I also threw away his metallica cds, I think she made them the copies becuz I didnt recognize the writting on them, I sent out a massive texts to al his contacts about his affair, oh and I put the OW on cheaterville with multiple pics. lol

Wow, I needed this thread today! I feel left out because I have nothing fun to share.... but I'm loving reading all your amazing ideas.

I don't know that I have the nerve for much, but I'm TOTALLY doing the dollar bill thing. Possibly with several different messages.

Genius idea. Pure genius.

Oh dear I should clarify... yes, charged 40 MPH through a 25 (so almost twice the limit) at midnight. It was in an industrial area so there was nobody out, but still CRAZY sauce speeding - a 15 over ticket was NOT what I needed that night so I'm glad the cops were nowhere near.

After two hours parked and waiting for him to get back, I got baby out of her carseat, to give her a bottle (I sat in the front seat while feeding her). I ran the engine to keep it warm.

I looked down at the beer and felt like the biggest white trash with my baby right there...but I've thankfully not made that a repeat behavior!!!