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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 1:53 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

PM me an email address. <insert an evil grin smilie>

I can't text pics but I would email it.

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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broken81 ( member #36774) posted at 1:55 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Send me the number i will text the dirty whore a nice whore meme

Me BS
him fWS
M 8yrs 2 kids
DD 2/12 lies until 4/12
2.5 yr A with an OLD married whore
working on R

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Bravenewgirl ( member #36267) posted at 2:08 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Ugh...I so feel your pain. OW moved to within 3 blocks of our house after the A started so WH could go over for a quick BJ when he was supposed to be getting groceries. Also to make it easier for him to abandon his family, I guess (which he did, so bully for them).

Now I have to see the chicken-headed skankasaurus where ever I go (grocery store, coffee shop, everywhere).

If I drive by her, I always flip her the bird or shout soooooo-weeee PIG! out the window. Childish, I know, but it makes me feel good. She is the one who invaded my neighbourhood, so I want to make her as unwelcome as possible (hey, is there an unwelcome wagon?)

I had a feel good moment when I was walking on the street with a male friend of mine and whoreface was on the other side. Without saying who it was, I asked if he thought she was hot. He said "no, she looks like a lesbian granola eating Starbucks barrista". AHAHAHA. (No offence to all the nice lesbian barristas out there).

Anyway, I hope your OW does move. You do not need that shit in your face. Big hugs to you.

Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty

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gardenmom ( member #29036) posted at 2:12 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

I feel for you. Ninhaventhe same issue. Dd s BFF is ow s son. Same class. And now her dd a yr younger is on same show choir. Ugh. I see her at the store and Walmart and just out and about. All. The. Time.

I have slowly learned to look through her. It took along time tho. ESP w seeing her every morning at drop off.

I don't know that I would say it gets better but you learn to not get the shakes, want to commit homicide or vomit. Eventually.

Good luck. My Ic had me visualize if and when we ever had to speak. How it would go and how I would handle it. It helped bc I had a plan. He had me visualize that scenario anytime I knew I would see her and when I did see her ifi could go to bathroom or something. It helped.

Me-BS-35
HIM-FWH-37 (Dad6573)
2 kids
married 16 years

Dday EA 03/10
Dday PA 06/03/10
Dday whole truth 08/2011

So tired and confused. R is up to him now.

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 2:38 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

She got a very interesting email.

From my alter ego "Eura Hoore"

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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gardenmom ( member #29036) posted at 2:40 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Lmao

Me-BS-35
HIM-FWH-37 (Dad6573)
2 kids
married 16 years

Dday EA 03/10
Dday PA 06/03/10
Dday whole truth 08/2011

So tired and confused. R is up to him now.

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Fathful123 ( member #34867) posted at 2:42 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Wow, it would be a shame if she tripped, like a couple times, maybe even 3 or 4 times....

DDay-7/11/2011
Me(51)
WS(54)with ED!!!!
OW- 49, big manly looking, Amazon looking Ho ; works with federal government but in different state
Several EAs and one oovoo recorded masturbation chat!
We have been Married 18 years
3 kids youngest 17

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RidingHealingRd ( member #33867) posted at 2:42 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Wow, I could never handle that. Honestly, I have no idea how any BS does.

Here's hoping she gets hit in the face with a high powered tennis ball.

ME: 60 BS
HIM: 67 WH
Married: 35 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 10 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.

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Random thoughts ( member #2959) posted at 2:45 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

You heard of the movie Snakes on A Plane right? How about Roaches in The Car. You should check around at your local pet store. Open window walking by your container of roaches just happen to spill.

Those three words are said too much and not enough.Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.FWW

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 2:49 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Eura sent her this

and this

and the no more whores thing.

heh heh heh

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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weeping willow ( member #22800) posted at 2:59 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

A few years ago someone posted on here that they took 100 one dollar bills and wrote in red marker on each and every one of them (something like this);

Don't let OW (her full name) near your husband. She's a homewrecker!

Then they went and spent every one of them around the town they lived in.

Just sayin'.

BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 40 years


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 LadyYoga (original poster member #28611) posted at 3:03 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

I would not survive if not for all of you and your humor. Thank you! Only you all actually feel for me. Everyone I know irl most likely just judges when they haven't walked one step in my shoes.

BS (me) 39
WH 50
DD,DS,DS
D-day 3/11/10 (3 month EA,1 week PA)
Whore was my best friend

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yogaga1 ( new member #36922) posted at 4:40 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

I just reread this thread 3 times over. I'm in tears laughing!

(((mom))) I feel for you. You're a strong woman. Don't let her get the best of you.

I see OW around every once in a while but we've never had a face to face moment. I just try to remember "I RUN THIS TOWN, BITCH- NOT YOU!". I think she's more scared of me than I of her anyway. :)

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scangel3 ( member #36164) posted at 5:20 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

so sorry, know how that feels though. 3.5 months after final dday we were at wh company christmas dinner and I was sitting right next to OWH.

It sucks that you have to run into her so often, I would not be able to handle that very well!!!

BS-me 31, WH-31, M'd-10 years
DD 10, DS 7, DS 6.5
Dday 03/01/10 (our DD's bday)
A ended 08/31/10-09/02-10 (with multiple ddays in between).TT on 08/2012, 09/04/12, 11/16/2012, 01/2013, 6/25/2013 Says he wants R, but not proving it

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Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 5:39 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

She got a very interesting email.

From my alter ego "Eura Hoore"

OMG! HFSSC!! That is priceless! What a hoot! I love you SI Folks.

(((Stay strong Momof3bgg)))

God Bless each and every one of us!

WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown

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Selkie ( member #22595) posted at 5:42 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

HFSSC:

She got a very interesting email.

From my alter ego "Eura Hoore"

OMG!

Warning..do not drink tea while reading this thread!

I need a new keyboard now..thankyouverymuch

Me: BS
Him: No longer matters.
DD: Special needs

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OnAnIsland ( member #34319) posted at 7:16 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Thank you for these graphics and the support flowing to momof3- who is a Strong and classy lady to not have spilled a coffee or some juice on this lovely OW. Hang in there. I like the suggestion of role playing how you would like a confrontation to go down- in terms of saving your dignity. And maybe role play how you would like it to go down in terms of saying how you really feel about her etc. Then use the former, but get some psychic relief from the latter,

D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful sons

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou

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girlsbird ( member #30877) posted at 7:35 AM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

Hey. More than willing to help in anyway possible. Emails texts whatever!

D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

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 LadyYoga (original poster member #28611) posted at 12:38 PM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

...

You know what the crazy bitch says when anyone says something to her about me? She says I "am bored and pissed off about something"! Really???? She truly doesn't get it. I know OW never do. OW ex BFF deserve to rot. However not sure how she was my BFF with the way she was dressed on Saturday..she wins the Emmy for worst dresser

[This message edited by metamorphisis at 9:14 AM, September 25th (Tuesday)]

BS (me) 39
WH 50
DD,DS,DS
D-day 3/11/10 (3 month EA,1 week PA)
Whore was my best friend

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Hearthache again ( member #28564) posted at 12:47 PM on Tuesday, September 25th, 2012

A few years ago someone posted on here that they took 100 one

dollar bills and wrote in red marker on each and every one of them (something like this);

Don't let OW (her full name) near your husband. She's a homewrecker!

Then they went and spent every one of them around the town they lived in.

I wish I would of thought about this a couple years ago. I may keep this as a back up just in case I feel the need too. This is the best idea I ever heard.

Me-BS(34)
Him-WS(37)
Married-14 years together 15
Kids 4: 17, 14, 10, and 5
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
I edit a lot because that stupid box is so small!

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