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I need to hear Karma Bus stories right now.

Thank you in advance.

Wish I had a karma story, Brave.

In my sitch I have to believe that OW believed that my FWH was "the love of its life" (that is what it always told him) and the karma is that it doesn't have him and gets the fantastic mind movies I make with FWH for OW.

((((BNG)))) Are you ok?

The OW was heavy already, but she has gained at least 40 pounds that makes her eyes look even squintier and her cheeks look like she has them stuffed with marshmallows. Her torso looks like a giant peach with toothpick legs. The first week after NC she wrecked her car, lost her iPhone(hopefully along with all of the texts and emails) and her cat got run over. Poor cat.

OMG. I have a great one for you. In fact, I have never seen Karma work so well or so fast.

My FWS was having an affair with an employee at a flower shop. He had a chance to acquire a building in our downtown area and so she decided (and he) that it would be a wonderful opportunity for her to open her own shop, which she did. At first she paid him rent.

Then her husband had a heart attack and right before that he had lost his job so they had no medical insurance. My husband stopped charging her rent, but her buisiness eventually failed. She lost her home, her boat, and ended up in an apartment in the ucky part of town.

She was also involved in a lot of the city stuff, and she had to end that because she can't even show her face in town.

She has nothing!!! Her dream was to have her own shop, and now it is gone> She had to declare bankruptcy, and as I said her home went into forclosure. Now she is pretty much a drunk and sleeps with whoever. Yes, Karmas raised her beautiful hand a struck quickly!!

Poor cat.

my karma story - I met someone who loves me for who I am, and treats me wonderfully. My kids love and respect me. I'm happy. I've got a good life that is only going to get better.

eta: karma works both ways, ya know. it's not just a bus that backs up over the WS and OP. sometimes it's a limo that carries the BS off into a fabulous new beginning.

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WH is now full blown impotent. His mail from the clinic still comes to the house and I opened it. Woops...thought it was a bill. Instead it was test results.

My WH (now soon to be X) came home from work one day and told me that Ow #3 (ho-worker) was fired, her son was in jail, her H beat her up and put her in the hospital, all in one week. I didn't believe him until I checked the hospital and her FB. It was all true. The next week, a test result she was expecting came, saying she had cancer. The next month, still jobless, she moved out of state with her H and son, to move in with her mother until they got on their feet.

How's that for a karma story? It's all true. I have to admit, I had zero sympathy for her when I heard the first bit of news. When I heard the following week that she had cancer, I'm a little ashamed to admit (ashamed in a way), that I felt nothing. No feeling of satisfaction or glee, but no feeling of sympathy either.

When I heard that OW#1 died of cancer, (after we S), again, no feeling one way or the other.

His last fling, the one he moved into our home after I moved out, left him about 2 or 4 weeks after she moved in. Now I hear that she is several states away, injured in the head, was in a coma, and still "isn't right," whatever that means. For her I only feel contempt. No glory, no pity, just a bit of contempt, and I don't think about her. (This is the one who drained us of finances, called my H repeatedly until she had him lured into her life until it became a PA. He was only too willing to oblige her.)

Another OW(not ours) was a flight nurse. After her A with a doc from her hospital, she jumped out of a window, fell on her neck and was partially paralyzed. Her son had to drop out of law school to take care of her. After intensive therapy she walks with a cane and will never work again. She maxed her insurance and is now on disability. She still chases the doc and is just pitiful. The wife of the WH knows all about it. The doc never left her or his kids.

fWH left me for OW2. I found out that he had actually left me for her when I was in the early stages of labour for our daughter. Not even 2 weeks later, he found out that OW2 was cheating on him.

Not what you want to hear perhaps, but I feel the karma bus came to visit me!

2001 - I've been broken up with WW (we were LT BFGF) for 2 years. I was seeing someone new and I felt like I was in love again. WW started calling me up out of the blue. And I mean we were done, so I didn't get it at all at the time. But she persisted.

One night, on my way home from the new GFs, WW called and begged me to come over. Well, she seduced me. And it was on again.

Within days I dumped my GF. I know I ripped her heart out.

Oh man, she was great too. Should have stayed with that one.

Thanks everyone!

Holy crap stillhere09, it sounds like your wh is a black widow or something!!

I feel better now. And now instead of waiting for the karma bus, I am going to hire my own karma limo.

Yeah the Karma bus hit me too...backed up, drove over, backed up, drove off...then a filthy dog pooped on my carcass, rolled in it, ate it, then barfed all over it. Let me know if I'm being too subtle. Otherwise, here's how Karma got me:

So in college, I had the maturity of a clown car. The guy I was dating wouldn't call me his GF. So I hooked up with my ex the entire time, justifying, on technicality. Dday was nuclear for SO. I blameshifted and TTd, but went NC with the ex and eventually my BSO married me.

He spent the entire three years cheating and becoming an alcoholic, then left me.

Next boyfriend (the ex...I like to recycle), proposed after a year and we moved in. Six cumulative years together.

He died a couple months later, in a plane crash.

It took a year for me to look at anyone else. I fell in love , and over a year's time, he moved in, I took on all his bills, put his business in my name, we got pregnant and engaged.

He was cheating with a guy from CL and a skank from his past the whole time (oh and the guy was an extra-endowed black dude). Some anonymous do-gooder sent me a courtesy tattle on FB. I would never have suspected otherwise.

The week I found out, I was also informed that the deceased fiance cheated on me the week of his death.

I was 7 months pregnant for all this joyous news.

I was recently able to apologize to my former BSO (who became my xWH). Hopefully the Karma stops now...

sigh.

Today, I have a gorgeous baby, sparkling with sweetness and wit. All has been reconciled.

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My H affair started when he was working closely with the HR officer, making redundancies, he was a director. She was single, two teenagers. She had not been with company very long, good job, high salary. He had been there a long time, exemplary record up to this point.

The A lasted 3 months, Shortly after it was outed and he had dumped her under the proverbial bus, she went on sick leave, this was shortly followed by her redundancy from the company due to ' re-structuring.

Coincidence or a nice case of Karma? I like to think that they got rid of the trouble causing whore, who had been in the company less than a yesr as soon as they found out. She hit on my H whilst making people redundant and in turn got binned herself - couldn't have asked for more

WH is now full blown impotent.

This is beautiful. To become full blown impotent after getting fully blown by some whoreface. I love it.

I have only one story of karma bus running over the OW. Soon after D-day, she found out that her Daddy was cheating on her Mommy and was leaving for the whore. Poor OW!! She could not understand how Daddy could do this to the family.

Its not enough for me. They both need to suffer more.

PBJKIKI...Holy crap, have you been through a lot.

I am so amazed by your humour and wit in the face of all that pain.

Thanks for the inspiration girlfriend.

fWH blindsided me asking for a divorce. He left Dec 2, 2011 (dday) and goes to stay with his cousin.

Dec 6th he gets fired for the first time in his life (OW was an employee of his and I like to think the higher ups had an issue with a married man fucking a 20 yr old).

1 week later his car breaks down.

2 days later his cousin's idiotic wife, the one that told him I must have mental issues, starts hounding him about fixing his car and getting a job.

He can't eat. Can't sleep. Drops 20 pounds in 18 days.

Comes over to visit our 5 children and sees us smiling and happy. What? We're not as miserable as he thought we'd be? I didn't beg him to come back home? How is this possible?!

We decide to R and the kids hate him, disrespect him, and walk all over him.

Took him 3.5 months to find another job.

Karma, for me, is that he has to live with this for the rest of his life. Unfortunately, so do I

xWH lost his contract with the company we did work for because he violated the morality clause in our vendor contract by having an affair on the grounds. Our business closed.

He has lost our home, blames me.

He is filing bankruptcy again, blames me.

Marries OW and she stays at his work everyday to "watch him".

His best friend died the day after he married OW and on the heels of angry words between the two of them.

His mother, brother, middle son and youngest daughter do not speak to him.

And I am sure that there are other things I have forgotten at this point.

Seems as though the karma bus likes the way he feels under the tires