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Sam793 ( member #37081) posted at 12:23 AM on Tuesday, November 13th, 2012
All I'm going to say is if the AP is crazy now what do you think it's going to be like in the future. When she no longer has to be competing with your BW she can be her normal self. My gut instinct is she will stop trying to impress and you will see her normal side. The honeymoon will be over and you'll wish that it never happened. You'll wish you had you're BW back. The first step is to stop the A. The second step is to tell your BW. From there, you're next direction will be known. Again please give your head a shake. If this AP has issues would you want your children around her when she goes plum loco?
Me: 38 BS: 33
3 y/o DD and one new DS
Married: 9 years
3.5yr A
Status: Each day I find more of how I screwed up
zoro ( member #29615) posted at 12:46 AM on Tuesday, November 13th, 2012
CheaterNoah,
One quick correction.
My BGF just read my post and reminded me that after I told her she merely asked me to leave and needed to be alone. She never really kicked me out and I guess my wayward thinking perceived it as her throwing me out rather than her needing time to think about how her world had just been rocked off it's foundation. She later admitted that she was in shock. I'm a lucky man to have someone so strong and independant, yet so loving a partner to not give up on us after my deceit. Have faith that your wife will give you a second chance.
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