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bluecali, I LOVE the Cake version of I Will Survive!

Let's not forget Alanis Morrissette and her entire Jagged Little Pill album. I actually can't listen to any of those songs, too triggery still.

Green Day - Time of Our Lives

Maroon 5 - entire album: Songs About Jane

All American Rejects - Gives You Hell

Plain White T's - Hate (I Really Don't Like You)

Kelly Clarkston – Since U been gone

Evanescence – Everybody’s fool

Foo Fighters - Best Of You

Thanks everyone! I've already put most of these in my play list.

I didn't like the Cake version of I Will Survive at first, but then it grew on me like a bad wart.

I loved Pink - Blow Me, but I have to be honest, as a guy, I truncated the lyrics on the chorus to suit me. e.g., just "Blow Me" period. If I could have, I would have inserted "Hey, stbxWW.... Blow Me!" in the lyrics. Sorry if that's tmi gals.

Also loved the two Godsmack tunes as I'm now getting into this alternative/heavy metal angry lyrics mode.

BTW, I found a few more that I really like, just in case anyone else is interested.

I Don't Care - Apocalyptica

Three Days Grace - Gone Forever

Let it Hurt - Rascal Flatts ( I know it's more about still being in a relationship, but it spoke to me. Besides, sometimes ya just gotta love the tender sweet vocals of Gary LeVox)

Rascal Flatts - Pieces (Great song about detaching & moving on)

Three Days Grace - It's All Over (Great song for anyone D'ing because of dealing with a spouse's substance abuse. Mine was a closet alcoholic for years)

Thanks again everyone!!

I have a playlist for the time he walked out through my discovery of his A, and now for the divorce:

"I Will Survive," Gloria Gaynor

"Liar," Rollins Band

"White Liar," Miranda Lambert

"Not Ready to Play Nice," Dixie Chicks

"Fuck You," CeeLo Green

"One More Minute," Weird Al Yankovic

"Thank God and Greyhound You're Gone," Roy Clark

"I'll Be Glad When You're Dead," John Fogerty (originally a Louis Armstrong song)

Thanks for bringing this topic up, PanicAttack. I will have more songs to add to my anger playlist.

I gonna write a song and I think I will call it: FTG

haha!!

I need a like button. I'd totally listen to this song.

[This message edited by ruinedandbroken at 9:50 PM, February 5th (Tuesday)]

Thanks for bringing this topic up, PanicAttack. I will have more songs to add to my anger playlist.

Oh, please do! I like the ones you already posted.

ETA:

I'm gonna write a song and I think I will call it: FTG

Know what I like most about this idea? It's non gender specific.

ETA #2:

I just listened to "Not Ready to Play Nice - Dixie Chicks"

WOW! I know it's a girl band and may speak more to the female side of this shit... but just fucking WOW! I so love that song and it just may move to the top of my list! Thanks ShellyBean for turning me on to this this.

BTW, here's a t/j on my own thread. (is that even allowed? ) NOTE: THIS.IS.NOT.A.POLITICAL.STATEMENT. Anyway, It's a GD shame the way the Dixie Chicks got F'd back in the George W days. Wonder how many people who slammed the shit out of them now see them in a different light?... just sayin... and no need for debate.

[This message edited by PanicAttack53 at 10:21 PM, February 5th (Tuesday)]

Some songs that helped me get through this crap are

A little bit stronger -- Sara evens

I got nothin -- Darius Rucker

You'll think of me-- Keith urban

Over you-- daughtry

Stronger-- Kelly clarkson

The war is over -- Kelly clarkson

Let me down -- Kelly clarkson

Ex -old man -- Kristen Kelly

Starts with goodbye-- Carrie underwood

Some good songs here. I'd like to add:

I Don't Want You Back - Eamon

Great list!

Change Your Mind from the show Nashville really hit me -

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=3SuONZ_InKQ

Shock - Love "The War Is Over"!! I'd just keep repeating that chorus to myself.... You don't deserve me, you don't deserve me...

My breakup playlist had a lot of ones already mentioned as well as:

Irreplaceable - Beyonce

Take a bow - Rihanna

Best days of your life - Kellie Pickler

Don't waste your time - Kelly Clarkson

Mr. Know it all - Kelly Clarkson

Resolution - Nick Lachey

Someone like you - Adele... But I liked to imagine my ex was the one singing it about me.

I always love these threads :)

I Don't Want You Back - Eamon

I got this one right in the beginning.

This is an awesome post. I have trigger songs and I have songs that make me just go "Yeah that's right, f-her"

So some of the items on my list:

Foo Fighters - let it die

Staind - mudshovel

Whitesnake - fool for you loving (Maybe my favorite of all of them)

Slash - you're a lie (okay maybe this is my favorite)

Ironically the Slash song came out and got popular right before my Dday. Now I realize why she was uncomfortable with the song when I played it in the car.

I have an eclectic shit ton, and it just depends on my mood!! So here is today:

"Crazy" Gnarls Barkley (I think you're CRAZY)

"Fuck you" Cee Lo Green

to be continued...

How could I have forgotten this one!

Somebody That I Used To Know - Gotye

Train: When the Fog Rolls In

(more sad than in-your-face, though)

You can go your own way - fleetwood mac

Independent - webbie

Great thread!

Songs that are in my rotation right now, depending on mood:

Wide Awake- Katy Perry

Firework- Katy Perry

Titanium- David Guetta

You Oughta Know- Alanis Morrisette

Dog Days Are Over- Florence + the Machine

Carry On- fun.

Move Along- All American Rejects

I Try- Macy Gray

In the End- Linkin Park

Rolling in the Deep- Adele

I Almost Do- Taylor Swift

Who Knew- Pink

White Liar by Miranda Lambert

Blown Away by Carrie Underwood

Anyone ever heard

Ghost by FeFe Dobson

Now I'm gone in your photograph

I bet you wish you could get me back

Now I'm stuck in your memory

A mistaken identity

What's her name?

What's she like?

Does she know that you'll never treat her right?

What's her name?

What's she like?

Do you leave her in the middle of the night?

You act like you just saw a ghost

I watch you getting way too close

Now I know why you're never there

Now I know so it's my turn to disappear

You act like you just saw a ghost

I caught you (Caught you)

Now I know

Now I know why you're never there

Now it's my turn, watch me disappear

Just like a go-go-go-ghost

Watch me go-go-go-ghost

**Love, love, love this one.

The rest of the Lyrics are great too.

Check it out.

ETA: youtube link

www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXrFBsYKrgE

[This message edited by Lola2kids at 10:11 AM, February 7th (Thursday)]

I have a new one and it is perfect and soooo appropriate. Check out:

"Perfect Life" by Red

Lyrics:

You pretend what you say you feel

You pretend that you're something special

All the lies that you hide behind

I see right through you, see right through you

Paint it on, cover every inch

Any flaw will expose your weakness

I'm immune to your fantasy

I won't become you, won't become you..

You want a perfect, PERFECT LIFE

Nothing wrong, nothing real inside

All I see is a perfect lie.

I don't want your perfect life [x2]

So, keep your dream with no consequence

You'd damage me just to feed your senses

All you fake for reality

I see right through you, see right through you

Take your pride, take your vanity

Can't you see that your ego's empty?

I will turn, I will walk away

I won't become you, won't become you..

You want a perfect, PERFECT LIFE

Nothing wrong, nothing real inside

All I see is a perfect lie

I don't want your perfect life [x3]

My eyes are wide open..

I see the enemy, the hypocrisy

Your cover is fading

Secrets pouring out, castles falling down

There's nothing to hide behind

I know who I am inside

I'm perfectly broken..

You want a perfect, PERFECT LIFE

Nothing wrong, nothing real inside

All I see is an empty lie

I don't want your PERFECT LIFE [x4]

The perfect life!