This Topic is Archived
whatamess11 (original poster member #37781) posted at 10:13 PM on Thursday, February 21st, 2013
Hi...I just want to say that if anyone is thinking of having an affair or if you're having an affair, please seek advice here. I am a WS (also a BS as well), and I feel there may be people on SI who might be in this position. Unless I haven't seen it, there doesn't seem to be a thread for people who are contemplating an A or who are in an A, and who desperately need someone to talk to about what they are doing and how they should stop and come clean.
D-Day 7/6/12 - My A was discovered that day; he confessed of his A's the day after
Me: WS/BS
HIM: WS/BS (Cantgetworse11)
US: Madhatters
Together 20 yrs, 2 children, and trying....
Blobette ( member #36519) posted at 10:55 PM on Thursday, February 21st, 2013
Have you had a look at the "Wayward Side" forum? Go to the yellow box on the upper left of the screen, click, on Forums, and you'll see it there. That's the forum for people who have had affairs and they often get people who are currently in affairs posting there about what they should do. Good luck.
BS (me): 51
WS: 52
Married: 27 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 11:36 PM on Thursday, February 21st, 2013
Blobette...
She's both BS & WS...so it's ok for her to post on General 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
whatamess11 (original poster member #37781) posted at 1:50 AM on Friday, February 22nd, 2013
Actually, I think you both misunderstood me. I started this thread for people to have someone to talk to ...to help that person ..to give that person advice on NOT having an A or how to help that person come clean from the A if it hasn't been already discovered. I, as a WS/MH/BS, could give advice to help someone else. I wanted to help others who were thinking of having an A or presently in one by making them understand what they are really doing and how it's going to affect their M. Sorry for the confusion.
D-Day 7/6/12 - My A was discovered that day; he confessed of his A's the day after
Me: WS/BS
HIM: WS/BS (Cantgetworse11)
US: Madhatters
Together 20 yrs, 2 children, and trying....
This Topic is Archived
