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cinnamongurl (original poster member #37879) posted at 5:00 AM on Sunday, March 24th, 2013
Thank you syzy. I feel the same way about the BS's here. They have given me so much insight into how my own BSO is thinking and feeling and how deeply he is hurting. Its made me look at myself a little more objectively and for once see where I need to change, and how to come about that change, and most importantly, who I change for. Its got to be me. Before reading here, I was under the impression that I needed to become who BSO wanted because that was the only way to heal... boy was I off with that one! I needed to want to change for me, not just to get him to stay or buy sometime, but because I truly understand now, that I have to want to change before I can actually change.
Me:FWS 42 He: FBS 43 and my heart
Together 22 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos
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cinnamongurl (original poster member #37879) posted at 5:04 AM on Sunday, March 24th, 2013
^^^ sorry if this is worded awkwardly, its past my bedtime and I should br sleeping. 
Me:FWS 42 He: FBS 43 and my heart
Together 22 years. We survived infidelity. "Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it." Tori Amos
CG
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