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5454real ( member #37455) posted at 10:06 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
hardlessons ( member #35025) posted at 10:36 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3CquMO3vJvo
For those that need a car/helicopter or cheesy mustache fix
Me WH
Wife Tired Girl
3 adult sons
"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 8:21 PM on Saturday, March 30th, 2013
If I knew how to put that Higgins from Magnum PI clapping gif I would.
Oh, this made me laugh! 
I think I would much rather see Higgins clapping as opposed to Orson Welles.
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 8:43 PM on Saturday, March 30th, 2013
What needs to happen is the WS getting healthy, the BS needs to get healthy and the marriage needs to get healthy. Very rarely do I see all three worked on and this happen. Maybe two out of three but rarely all three.
This. It's all about healthy. I think sometimes that healthy and boundaries go hand-in-hand, and it might be worth exploring what your concept of healthy is. It will make understanding boundaries a lot easier. Consider boundaries your access two, after healthy. 
Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
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