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pizzalover (original poster member #38336) posted at 12:05 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013
I just listened to new Pink/Nate Ruess song "Just Give Me a Reason". A beautiful song, but the below lyrics are what made me lose it:
No nothing is as bad as it seems
We'll come clean
Just give me a reason
Just a little bit's enough
Just a second we're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
I never stopped
You're still written in the scars on my heart
You're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
http://m.vevo.com/watch/pink/just-give-me-a-reason/USRV81200480
Trying to rebuild each day
Me - WW 41
Him - BH 41 (mpb1974)
2 Furrbabies - sweet cats
Met - 8/13/99
Started dating - 9/11/99
Moved in together - 3/03
Engaged - 6/5/09
Married - 8/21/10
D-Day - 1/24/13
Affair started 5/09
hurtmywife27 ( member #38799) posted at 1:19 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013
I know the song well. everything TV, Radio, Songs, Commercials. Will get to you and what you did. I see my BS suffering and I know I am the that created that.
WH (me) 59
BS (her) 45
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22................................. I Totally screwed up.
sosorry5454rl ( member #37637) posted at 3:08 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013
WW(me) 41
BH 50 (5454real)
Married 10 years
Currently in R and plan to stay there and succeed
DD 21, DS 19, SS 22, DS 8, DGS 2
HeartInADustpan ( member #38341) posted at 3:27 AM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013
(((pizzalover)))
It is heart wrenching. Hang in there!
Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain
27yearsnowlost ( member #38787) posted at 12:53 PM on Thursday, March 28th, 2013
As bw ....I down loaded this song the other night and played it over 20 times in a row and tortured myself. Just trying to find out as the songs says are we broken or just bent.
There a lot of songs that will set off triggers.
Bw (me) 47
WH (him) 59
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22
Brokenheart777 ( member #38561) posted at 3:24 PM on Saturday, March 30th, 2013
I sent this song to my WGF when she was in the ILYBINILWY phase and asked for "time apart" because she was having an A. I can't listen to it anymore. It's too painful. Amazing song none-the-less.
ME - A new person
HER - A waining memory
DDay - 2/22/2013
2-3 month EA/PA
Together for 6 years, ready to start my life . . .
"I can fill the flask up, but can't get past us
I'm in the storm, staying strong, but can't get back
Luvlyla ( member #38692) posted at 10:07 PM on Sunday, March 31st, 2013
its a brilliant song and came out at just the appropriate time for me. the first time heard it i pulled over and cried and cried, downloaded it immediately and played it until i could sing all the words.
I was doing the same thing - trying to figure out if we were broken or just bent.
the next time it came on the radio, i had learned and accepted i had no control over his heart and his actions, and i knew mine was just bent, and i will learn to love again - with someone else who has learned from the scars on his heart. :(
When he's your Romeo,
and you're not his Juliet,
it means you are Rosaline
- and you survive the play.
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