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uncertainone ( member #28108) posted at 5:35 PM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013
Other ICs would just try to make me feel better after the fall-outs an collect money
oh, so familiar with that!
I think the overall pattern you describe would actually be visable in most areas of your life. A kind of casual surface skate rather than a real show up and be completely present.
The choices to cheat aren't usually isolated. It's tendrils run wide and deep.
Me: 37
'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth
hardlessons ( member #35025) posted at 9:57 PM on Saturday, April 6th, 2013
One did push me to question my sense of honesty and morality, however, he was less concerned about the infidelity part of my life.
In IC I think you should be focused on you, the core of you not the fact that you cheated but the lies/justifications we tell ourselves to make the choice to cheat just so obvious. If you found a good IC that is willing to tread deep waters go back to him.. IMO good luck
Me WH
Wife Tired Girl
3 adult sons
"a wayward...annnnd just a tad betrayed."
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