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BrighterFuture ( member #38914) posted at 2:45 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
She's not worth beating yourself over. She is trash. That explains why they had a standing date every Wednesday. Which responsible woman accepts part-time relationship if she ain't trash and doesn't think she deserves better. Relax, breathe. Give it 6 months at most.
Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!
"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 2:45 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
Well, if anything this should help you take to heart that the A isn't the sign of something special between them, otherwise how would strangers on a message board know what he's been up to? It's nothing new, wonderful or special.
Look, if he tries to play the "I'll pull support from you card" - and that's a good chance given that this tramp already has two other kids plus the baby he will be expected to provide for- then let him know you'll give the courts info on his off the books earning. Have fun with the IRS bud. He's playing along now, but Trampy McTramperson will expect her spawn to be provided for. Be ready to enforce your agreement and let him know if he takes away support for your children, all his income will be under the scrutiny of an audit.
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
Zamas (original poster member #38658) posted at 3:17 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
I think I might have won on that front, temporarily at least. He's agreed to pay $500 per week for one year at which case we will renegotiate. I'm honestly tempted to move in with my mom for the year, she's already offered and the kids really want to, so I can really take full advantage and save as much as I can. I'm sure he won't be so willing to keep up the same level of support when the year is up and we will end up in court fighting it out but for now he's going to sign a document and we will get it notarized. The whore will have to wait for his money till then at least.
Me- SAHM 30yo BS
Him- 32yo WS
Three kids, 9, 7, 10mo
Their baby was born in Sept and they are happily househunting. He finally left 4/03.
Zamas (original poster member #38658) posted at 3:19 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
Holly- you're absolutely right. Everyone knew immediately that there was more, they could've written the ending for me minus the pregnancy at least. She is nothing new or special and he will wake up one day so full of regrets that my heart will sing! That's my secret dream at least.
Me- SAHM 30yo BS
Him- 32yo WS
Three kids, 9, 7, 10mo
Their baby was born in Sept and they are happily househunting. He finally left 4/03.
Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 3:35 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
OOH! 
I LOVE THIS^^^
Have fun with the IRS bud.
BOOM!
Take care *Hugs*
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 1:42 PM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
I'm so sorry Zamas. What a mess.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
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