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 jo2love (original poster member #31528) posted at 5:57 PM on Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

I still have work to do on healing emotionally from the physical abuse from others.

Thank you. A big reason that emotionally this is where I am today, is due to all the support on SI.

Sometimes, I just need to vent.

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 6:19 PM on Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

IMHO, as long as the relationship/friendship is beneficial to you, and not just something you feel obligated to maintain because of a shared past, maintain it. Once it stops benefiting you though, that's when I think most of us would agree to put some distance. It doesn't sound like you've hit that point.

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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 jo2love (original poster member #31528) posted at 6:25 PM on Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

I agree, Ama.

I think starting a thread in NB should count as part of my NB.

[This message edited by jo2love at 12:26 PM, April 16th (Tuesday)]

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:18 PM on Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

I think starting a thread in NB should count as part of my NB

I agree. Well done, jo!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 9:47 PM on Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

Jo, is this your first NB thread? Exciting!

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 10:16 PM on Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

Big eyerolls to xwbf.

Dude, get the net!!!

Big huge hugs to you jo. You're such a loving, amazing, wonderful person. You must teach me how to let "idiot" bounce off as gracefully as you do.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

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 jo2love (original poster member #31528) posted at 11:38 PM on Tuesday, April 16th, 2013

Jo, is this your first NB thread?

Yep, first one. Not sure why I waited this long.

Dude, get the net!!!

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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 12:55 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013

It's not just about dating, you know.

(do I need to bump my favorite thread????)

"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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 jo2love (original poster member #31528) posted at 1:07 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013

I don't start threads often.

Sure. Thank you.

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