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Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 9:53 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Big hugs to you Very Heartbroken. I am not too squishy either but I can read in your posts that you are really hurting and just trying to keep it together.
We are all been where you are now, been down that road. We know the pratfalls and just want to give you the best advice because we care.
We know it hurts 
I know that you did not want to use your son as a pawn, but that is basically what happened.
We fall down...we get up.
Learn from this. Stay classy and keep your head up and you will know that you have done everything in your power for your son to be the best man he can be...Your WXF, not so much.
By taking the high road you will have a better chance of getting what you want when you go to CS court.
Stay classy VHB, you will sleep better at night. 
Take Care.
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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BrighterFuture (original poster member #38914) posted at 10:50 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
Thanks for your comments Gettingtohappy. Yes, it's true I'm trying to hold it together, but sometimes I just crumble and fall. Being a mother, pregnant, going to school, trying to find a job with no family around is not easy. It's the most difficult time of my life. I learnt from the daycare today when I went to drop my son that he was allowed in, and he held my son the only thing he wasn't allowed to do was take him. So, obviously he lied when he said that he wasn't let in.
Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!
"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.
BrighterFuture (original poster member #38914) posted at 10:50 PM on Thursday, April 18th, 2013
[This message edited by VeryHurtbroken at 8:37 PM, April 18th (Thursday)]
Me:30
Him:31
D-day:2/24/13 (I was 10 weeks pregnant at the time and DS was 15 months)
Status: Parted ways!
"If only I can fight just a little longer, I know it's gonna make me stronger" Jamie Grace-Holding on.
Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 1:48 AM on Friday, April 19th, 2013
Being a mother, pregnant, going to school, trying to find a job with no family around is not easy. It's the most difficult time of my life.
It aint' easy! We know. That is why we are here to prop you up when the going get too tough. We are listening and we care. Really.
I learnt from the daycare today when I went to drop my son that he was allowed in, and he held my son the only thing he wasn't allowed to do was take him. So, obviously he lied when he said that he wasn't let in.
UGGH! What a douche! FT immature G!
You are young and smart. You are going to come through this with flying colors! Stay strong and classy. Focus on taking care of YOU and your baby boy, and the new edition. It's a lot of work, but you will make it. The best revenge is a life well lived. We all are rooting for you! 
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown
homewrecked2011 ( member #34678) posted at 3:10 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013
I think the letter was great regarding him seeing his child. Keep a copy of this! It shows how brilliant and classy you are.
Sometimes He calms the storm. Sometimes He lets the storm rage, but calms His child. Dday 12/19/11I went to an attorney and had him served. Shocked the hell out of him, with D papers, I'm proud to say!D final10/30/2012Me-55
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