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HelpMe123 (original poster member #39044) posted at 8:58 PM on Saturday, April 20th, 2013
With one full week since D day behind me and the mental torture being so erratic I am not sure I did the right thing. I installed a free GPS phone locator app on a spare droid we have and hid it under his seat in his car. I have no idea what I'm going to do later when he goes out!!!! Do I go there and watch, or confront the OW????? Do I do nothing but write down the address???? Or should I not have done it at all???? God I'm scared!
So I found out he's even lying about his affair!!! The OW lives 2 miles away!!! I have her address (thx to putting the phone in the car) and her name from google. Paid the $6 for info and now I even have her bday!!! She is 5 years younger then me and I am 10 years younger then him!!!! Her driveway was long and it was the only house so I did not go there but he is there!!!!!! What do I do!!!!! This is not going to stop is it????
[This message edited by HelpMe123 at 7:05 PM, April 20th (Saturday)]
Me BS 37
Him 47
OW 32
Together 12 years
D-Day was told it was EA 4/11/2013 found out it was PA 4/21/2013 :( I am broken
1 son (9)
3 kids from previous (19,17,16)
His kids from previous 2 (17, 15)
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 11:16 PM on Saturday, April 20th, 2013
It's up to you. What do you feel comfortable with? Me, I'd probably go to the address and at a minimum, take a photo of his car at her place. But I am pretty confrontive. But what are you comfortable with? Would you have a friend that could go with you?
Or simply get the phone back when he gets back, download the GPS, and save it. Then decide. You can always wait and confront later. It's totally up to you. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
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