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hurtmywife27 (original poster member #38799) posted at 1:18 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013
My BS and I were on way to the store when our Friend txt us to come and get his GF. They are both like family to us and we care for them dearly. We get to the house and he has his friend a cop talking to his GF and she is in tears. My Wife stays with her and I go inside to find my friend drinking saying get her out of here. Long story short. He cheated on her and she found the evidence in there bed. He said I don't know how it got there. Now she also found out that he was staying at his soon to be x wife's house found texts in his phone that he copied and pasted almost identical to her and his wife on how much he loves you and tells soon to be x, I can't stay with this GF anymore she is crazy and then he writes his GF the same but using his soon to be x instead.. Talk about screwed up. This had to be the nasty fight I ever witnessed, couldn't get her to leave, she tried to kill herself was able to rip the Zanax bottle out of her hand and was able to get the pills out of her mouth. Police came 45 minutes late.. What a night? We didn't let the police know about the pills so they wouldn't put her in lock down. We bought her back to our house and my BS was comforting her. Now got me thinking, was I that f@@ked up to my BS? Sorry honey.. We can only hope they both find there way. But just can't believe with all the issues my BS has going on, she still had the strength to help a friend.. This is one wonderful person and did not deserve to been hurt the way she was hurt.. No words can explain my feelings, she knows!
WH (me) 59
BS (her) 45
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22................................. I Totally screwed up.
UnexpectedSong ( member #21761) posted at 9:42 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013
I am glad you were able to help your friends. You need to watch the GF carefully. She may want to try again, in which case a lockdown may be needed.
WW(SA)
"Feedback is the breakfast of champions." - Boris Becker
hurtmywife27 (original poster member #38799) posted at 11:37 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013
My bs is keeping a very sharp eye on her and talks to her, surprisingly she is doing very good considering what she went through. My concern is my bs what kind of effect will this be on her? She still has to understand why I chose the path that I did. Going to see an ic for that. Helping her through this, comforting her, showing my love for her. If my bs decides to leave me and that will be her choice, not mine. We both have to live together and hopefully as friends. What a year for her!!!
WH (me) 59
BS (her) 45
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22................................. I Totally screwed up.
hurtmywife27 (original poster member #38799) posted at 11:38 AM on Thursday, April 25th, 2013
Ps Forgot one thing... Love Her With My Heart And Soul..
WH (me) 59
BS (her) 45
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22................................. I Totally screwed up.
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