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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 6:54 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
Have you seriously considered leaving and going back to your home,to stay with family until you can get on your feet? I know your WH is his father,but this man is a monster. He is cruel and abusive. He is toxic. An absent father is better than a shitty father(I had both growing up).
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
HelpMe123 (original poster member #39044) posted at 7:26 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
I have and am seriously considering going back home but let me give some examples of what's waiting for me back there....my brother was just put on house arrest for sleeping with a 17 ur old, he's 33 and he's residing with my mother, he is not to be alone with anyone under 18, my uncle is in jail for molesting his children (everyone has disowned him), my other brother lives in housing projects that had a drive by shooting and a domestic abuse incident where a man slashed his GF's throat in the middle of the day. Add that to the no job there no economy, poor schools....I hope that helps put into perspective why I'm scared of the choice I make for my kids :(
Me BS 37
Him 47
OW 32
Together 12 years
D-Day was told it was EA 4/11/2013 found out it was PA 4/21/2013 :( I am broken
1 son (9)
3 kids from previous (19,17,16)
His kids from previous 2 (17, 15)
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 7:32 PM on Friday, April 26th, 2013
It does. Im sorry.
(((((HelpMe))))
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
hopefulmother ( member #38790) posted at 2:40 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2013
Yes...thanks! Then I say, don't let him bully you into leaving. Stay in a good area for your son. But, stay clear of the ex. I would also start logging on a calendar or journal all the times he attempts to contact you or harass you.
Me-BW 44
WH-44 zugzwang
D-day 9-4-12
Major TT 8-14
Friends since 1993
Married 2004 with 2 children
My wedding band is a symbol of hope, forgiveness, love, and grace.
Safeguard ( member #38899) posted at 7:44 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2013
Wow. Yeah that puts a lot of things in perspective. Stand your ground then, but get tough with this sob.
His history reads like a nightmare, unless he's been "In the Fog" his whole adult life, this is not fog, it's who he IS.
"since your actions don't match your words, excuse me while I stop believing you."
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