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TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 11:38 AM on Saturday, April 27th, 2013
Ya'll are too funny!!! I needed a good laugh today. Thanks.
Shelly...I am so glad he was a nice guy. There are some out there you know, so I hope it works out for you. Have fun at the run!!!
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
curiouswiz ( member #34405) posted at 4:39 PM on Saturday, April 27th, 2013
I think the run is just the ticket! Not exactly asking him out as Pass suggested but a good way to get to see each other interact with other folks.
Just fabulous..this thread made my face smile..I think it's going to hurt later.
I hate to watch guys bounce dimes off their butts, it gets boring. Especially when they roll over like good dogs wanting a belly rub but they do it themselves. And really they can't take their eyes off of their own wonderfulness. 
She11ybeanz (original poster member #27457) posted at 5:18 PM on Saturday, April 27th, 2013
I've HAD Beaaauuutiful before.... it gets boring!! My ex-husband had the nicest ass though! It was like a big round bubble butt! He would be SO freakin popular in jail!!! 
But....I need more substance now than just good looks. I'm tired of emotionally unavailable men who's only show of emotion is if the gym closes on a snow day.... NO THANKS... 
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 5:50 PM on Saturday, April 27th, 2013
Yup...ask him out. He's probably scared poopless at the thought he might see you again and whether or not you will speak to him.
Ask him out for coffee or something.
And thanks for the update.
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
CheaterMagnet ( member #33581) posted at 11:09 PM on Saturday, April 27th, 2013
t/j You are ALL amazons!! SAWH and I are both only 5'4" and *I* am the amazon in my family! The women in my family are all under 5'4" and them men are all over 6'. Tell me how we do that one! 
end t/j
Congrats Shelly!!! I am so happy to see YOU so happy.
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 12:27 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2013
In college...I dated "pretty". Never worked out really well. STBX was by far the most unattractive man I dated, his personality won me over. Now look how that turned out! I look for substance, if it is in a pretty package, then it is a bonus, not a requirement.
I'm 5"2 
I've dated as tall as 6'4. Funny, lots of guys commented on how happy they are that I am tiny. But, my BFF's husband loves that she is tall and willowy. To each his own.
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
JessicaFL127 ( member #26864) posted at 4:49 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
Sigh. Never mind, I just got home from work and say the other post. Move along, nothing to see here... 
[This message edited by JessicaFL127 at 10:52 PM, April 28th (Sunday)]
BW,35
divorced for 10 years
Happily remarried to a much better choice.:D
mom to two awesome boys,14 and 13
And now to a beautiful baby girl, 1 <3
"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you
Bebba1171 ( member #33857) posted at 9:56 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
I enjoy these stories and the comments, so you definitely need to keep dating - if not this guy another one.
Tesla and PHMH need to also be contributing to these stories.
I have met both of them and they are both very, very attractive. 
Their problem is that they are way too old and too slow for a youngster like me.
Shelly, I am happy for you. All you runners are so cool.
Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 54Me) / XWW 52
Two great kids that don't deserve this!
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