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idiot85 (original poster member #38934) posted at 4:49 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
I was just talking to a mate and said I'd quite like to see my wife talk to the OM to see what she looks like when she looks at him and how her voice sounds- my mate thinks it's a bit sick and I'm inclined to agree. I know they only had a one night stand but some weird little part of me would like to see that it's not the same as how she looks and speaks to me.
Today has just been weird as fuck. I think it would upset my wife so I posted in here- she doesn't look at my posts in "just found out".
BH-32 (me)
WW-31
Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 8:10 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
..i think it would only hurt you more to actually see them talking and smiling together..
..is she still in contact with OM??
..and how do you know she doesn't read posts in JFO???
..is she aware of your membership here?? and your user name??
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
meplustwo ( member #39082) posted at 9:19 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013
Is she still in contact with the om? If so, I would insist on nc right away. I agree that seeing them act warmly towards each other would only hurt you and make you question whether it is over between them. Sorry you are having a tough day. Chin up, I know its a roller coaster ride!
Me(34) - BS
Him(35) - WH
Married: 9 years
Two Kids: 4 and 6
D-Day #1: 7/12, D-Day #2: 4/24/13
Affair: EA to PA with coworker
Status of A: Says he broke it off after I went to her house and confronted both of them
idiot85 (original poster member #38934) posted at 10:15 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2013
No she's not in contact at all- yesterday was a weird day- I don't feel the same today- I didn't last night.
It was just a morbid curiosity that thankfully has passed!!!
Yeah she recommended this site to me. I don't read her posts in W unless she shows me and she doesn't read mine in this one.
Today is a much better day!!
BH-32 (me)
WW-31
Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.
mainlyinpain ( member #39134) posted at 4:12 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
I have really wanted to hear him talk to her...and see them together I guess...its like seeing him how he acts in a relationship with someone else...if he acts like the person I know or if I can tell that he is all fake with her. But to see them and if I see an ease and an intimacy that might be deep would be devastating
You just wonder who this person is, the person your spouse is that is with someone else....an alien being
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