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Would you date a pastor?

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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:31 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

No, I wouldn't date a pastor or anyone that was deeply religious, because I am not. I agree with Sad, I am spiritual but not religious - not in any way that would mesh with established religions. I'm not sure those are differences that can co-exist in a healthy relationship. I would be worried about expectations of changing my beliefs.

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hurtinky ( member #26152) posted at 2:21 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

I wouldn't. I'm Catholic and I just don't think it would be a good fit.

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purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 2:30 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013

I'd be as cautious dating a pastor as I would a politician. Both really put you into the limelight and everybody being in your business KWIM?

My father became a preacher and that was the catalyst that killed my parents marriage. My mom is a gigantic introvert and never forgave him for dragging her into that role.

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