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tryingagain74 (original poster member #33698) posted at 2:29 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Believe me, Sad, if I had grounds for supervised visitation for only a couple hours per week (so they at least get to see their dad), I would go for it. I'm relieved that at least I have primary physical custody. I'm not looking forward to what happens when the OW and her children move in, and my kids are thrown in with them. I have the feeling that I'm in for an uphill battle.
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:32 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
you are not overreacting. He is neglecting his duty as a parent.
Hugs,
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
tryingagain74 (original poster member #33698) posted at 2:37 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Thanks, everyone. I'm appreciate the 2 x 4s. When he takes them on vacation to visit with his parents, I pray like crazy for their safety. When they're gone EOW, I do the same. As my father once said about him, "For someone so intelligent, he certainly is stupid." I don't want to wish my kids' lives away, but I will feel so much better when they are older and can more fully advocate for themselves.
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 5:50 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
He told me that he wasn't sure if it was okay
This is bullshit. And if he's 'not sure' then it's absolutely NOT ok. 
Get someone else to get them ready in the morning. Right away. Who knows what other 'mistakes' he's made that you don't know about?
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
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