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New Beginnings :
Update about my Friend

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 SoHappyNow (original poster member #8923) posted at 1:54 AM on Monday, May 6th, 2013

My friend and I are now living together. His divorce will be final this month, as the

lawyer appears

before the judge on the 17 th to request the final decree. His soon to be exwife and he

are still amicable

- I know this because when they converse about the divorce, he puts his phone on speaker.

He wants

to be open and transparent about everything, so that our relationship goes well. We have

had a few

things come up that proved to be a good test of both of our communication/relationship

skills and his

words and actions were spot on. He recently had to go renew his access card for my state

emergency

management department where he has volunteered his skills with ham radio since 2010. His

clearance

level went up so he needed new picture id which opens all doors to him at state police

headquarters......better than a background check imo. He really IS a good man, my late

husband's

judgement was not impaired when he set this new romance in motion by asking friend to

look after me.

I am so glad that I did not reject the gift that God/the Universe sent to me. I am very

very happy again.

My son and my friends are pretty delighted by this turn of events too. Thank you for

caring about me,

SI friends. I wanted to let you know how well this is turning out.

In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14

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MyVoice ( member #35695) posted at 4:51 AM on Monday, May 6th, 2013

thanks for sharing your beautiful life

Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

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gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 6:20 AM on Monday, May 6th, 2013

It's so wonderful to read that life still have good surprises for us !

BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 11:30 AM on Monday, May 6th, 2013

Wishing you lots of happiness!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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