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Tripletrouble (original poster member #39169) posted at 12:31 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
So my WH was on AFF sexting with countless local women. The humiliation is so burning that I look at the ground when I'm in public because I feel like the whole world knows and is laughing at what an idiot I am- first for not knowing, then for trying to R. Logically it seems ridiculous but it's what I feel. And I can't even tell anyone what I'm going through because I would never violate the privacy of my teenagers like that. So thank god for this board and all the posters, you have kept me sane.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
PurpleBirch ( member #39170) posted at 12:46 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
I know how you feel. My WH got his military posting today. He (and everyone he told) is glad he's staying in the same town because I have a job here. What he doesn't realize is that I wasn't planning on fucking up my career by joining his lying piece o shit ass.
I haven't posted too much, but I like knowing I can say stuff like that ^^ and no one will judge me.
Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.
DS (6), DS (18 months)
Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".
Status: Done like dinner
Tripletrouble (original poster member #39169) posted at 1:16 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
Wow Purple we are back to back member #'s and my d day was 4/22. Sorry to share such an unfortunate bond with you.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
Hearthache again ( member #28564) posted at 4:56 AM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013
You have nothing to feel ashamed about. You did nothing wrong but trust the person you are in a relationship with.
I also felt this way. I always felt like people were judging me for my H actions. You get over it after a while.
I would recommend IC since you have not support outside of this board. This place is a awesome but sometimes we need one on one contact to get us through the rough times.
Me-BS(34)
Him-WS(37)
Married-14 years together 15
Kids 4: 17, 14, 10, and 5
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!
This too shall pass
I edit a lot because that stupid box is so small!
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