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doggiemom12 ( member #36041) posted at 11:36 PM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013
He will never change. He will never give you what you need. He will try and take advantage of you any chance he gets. He is trying to take care of only himself.
Don't sign a quitclaim. You don't have to cooperate with him.
Please just 180 him and kick him to the curb. He is sick. It is over. THE END.
White bird must fly or she will die . . .
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 2:30 AM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
Get an attorney and get what you deserve. You don't have to take him to the cleaners, but don't give away your power or what you've worked for.
Remember; from now on, it's a business deal; be a hardass, and if you can't, hire one.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 3:55 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
I'm sorry faithful! Ex-shat twisted stuff back around on me...I remember how terrible that was and now that I am away from it, I see how undeserved it was and how it really was him deflecting away from his faults and flaws.
Protect yourself. Don't do anything he asks you to...get a lawyer.
(((((Faithful)))))
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Faithful w/Love (original poster member #33128) posted at 4:21 PM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
What I am baffled about is he just told me how in love he was with me. He bought me gifts for mothers day, cooked me dinner. We have been getting along pretty well sense I moved out. And all it took was a huge fight that we were both at fault about.
I just can't get my head around this.
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
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