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lostandconfused4 (original poster new member #39315) posted at 11:55 PM on Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013
Seriously I cannot handle the feeling crazy; I go from being happy to being angry to being hopeful, despair, to being relieved that I finally know what the big wedge between us is to being thankful that we finally have the open and honest communication, back to being happy, to being angry, and so on. I really don't think one person is supposed to feel all of these emotions in the same day , let alone at the same time. Please tell me this eventually fades... Or maybe I really have just lost my mind from all of this...
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me: 26 BW
him: 28 WH (patientarcher)
2 beautiful girls
D Day April 26th, 2013
In marriage, secrets are as dangerous as lies. Build your marriage on complete trust, honesty and communication
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 12:10 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
It IS crazymaking - and I promise it fades.
We've been in your shoes. It feels like there's a tornado in your brain, and lava in your veins.
Just take care of yourself as much as you can right now. Know that this is completely normal, and it won't last forever.
(((lostandconfused4)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
HeartInADustpan ( member #38341) posted at 12:20 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
Jrazz is right on.
I'm 6 months out and I still have and occasional "crazy" day. They do fade.
There are a few months I can't even remember what happened. DDay felt like it was "just yesterday" for a very long time. Then it went to "just last week" for a couple months. I'm just now getting to where time is making sense again.
Hang in there. 
Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain
Daisy312 ( member #36813) posted at 12:26 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
One year out, and I still feel the way you do, and it is very hard. On my good days I sometimes feel like I'm waiting to trigger and I will spiral into anger or sadness, etc... I have more good days than before, but I'm still a mess. I wish I had advice, but I don't. Just wanted to let you know you are normal, not alone, and not crazy
hobbeskat ( member #38805) posted at 12:28 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
Just want to do a, "three months from D-day and feeling completely insane" fist-bump with you here. You're not alone.
lostandconfused4 (original poster new member #39315) posted at 12:35 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
Thank you all! In just a few days it will be a month and the waves of emotion are nuts. I spend enough time questioning him, I don't want to have to question my sanity on top of it.
me: 26 BW
him: 28 WH (patientarcher)
2 beautiful girls
D Day April 26th, 2013
In marriage, secrets are as dangerous as lies. Build your marriage on complete trust, honesty and communication
huRtZ413 ( member #39214) posted at 1:06 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
same boat about a month out from it all and i find myself so hopeful and full of love and passion then sobbing then happy again that we finally have a connection and can openly talk without yelling and then sad and lost .....WH gets tired too but is persistent but we both get heach aches and feel like we could pull our hair out
me_BW
him_WH
I'M ON THE FENCE
lostandconfused4 (original poster new member #39315) posted at 2:49 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
I could have written that huRtZ413 it is exactly how it goes for us also
me: 26 BW
him: 28 WH (patientarcher)
2 beautiful girls
D Day April 26th, 2013
In marriage, secrets are as dangerous as lies. Build your marriage on complete trust, honesty and communication
outtanowhere ( member #39001) posted at 2:55 AM on Thursday, May 23rd, 2013
Oooo...
I feel so much better now! I really miss my mind! 
Me-clueless BS Dday - 2/19/13 "This isn’t flying. It’s falling with style".Buzz Lightyear - Toy Story
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