This is bugging me, so I will bring it here and get some insight, hopefully.
Ex has finally convinced MOW to separate. Either that or her BH finally had enough. I found out that she probably filed for divorce and for sure her husband moved out.
Ex flew there because she was upset her H moved out.
MOW has a 10 year old (I think) son with her H.
I would imagine that she would have a hard time getting custody if she told the husband that her lover lives in Canada and she wants to move there.
I think Ex is planning to move to Europe to be with her.
I have no confirmation of this but second hand from his ex-wife (my informant whom I can only trust with predjudice).
The only reason I care about this is:
1. He would ask to have the kids visit him (with MOW, barf) there in Europe without me.
I had a lawyer tell me that he can ask all he wants but it doesn't mean that I have to comply if he was the one that decided to move so far away from his kids.
2. Will he continue to pay CS from overseas? What recourse do I have if he cuts CS off?
Does anyone (other that GriefStricken25) have an ex overseas?
We were never married so there are no divorce papers.
Finances are separate.
He pays CS now bi-weekly through direct deposit from his father's bank account (based the amount of his 2011 income).
I always thought that this senario would be "the best". She would stay away from my kids. I wish I could say that I can survive without the child support but I find that keeping the house on my own is a little difficult without the extra money.
I could do it but, really, why should he get off scot free from all of his responsibilities?
I just can't help worrying about this.
[This message edited by Lola2kids at 12:22 PM, May 23rd (Thursday)]