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girlsbird ( member #30877) posted at 2:11 AM on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013
Our lives are in a great place right now. He loves me and I love him. I still have some down times but they are few and far between. I don't post often but read daily and just want to wrap my arms around the folks who are struggling.
It hasn't been an easy road and during the last year I had to support my son who also went thru this terrible ordeal. I do believe with what I have learned I was able to support him and help him thru all of this. He and his WS are reconciling now as well.
D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed
La Traviata ( member #14941) posted at 2:45 AM on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013
Things are going better. I've decided to give it "one more year" and I'm breaking with both AA tradition and SI doctrine and I gave him a list of things to do that would demonstrate his dedication and show me that things really are different this time.
If after this year the cycle repeats, I'm gone with a clear plan and a clear conscience. I hope that doesn't happen though.
One of my conditions was that he pack up all our stuff and move to a new apartment (and unpack!) I thought he would find an excuse for why that was ridiculous but he didn't. With any luck, I go home to a new home in early July
me: BW 31
him: WH, 29
DDay: 4/16/12
RelapseDay:4/15/13
A year of false R. I grew and worked, he didn't. He took off his wedding ring during an alcoholic relapse, I packed and left the next day. I went back 8 weeks later, working hard
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