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NoraLee (original poster member #37922) posted at 4:29 AM on Saturday, May 25th, 2013
It started out to be a rough night...hubby had a choice of working at cOW's bar for 45 minutes near the end of the night (she typically leaves work early so he probably would've avoided her) or cover the bartenders dinner breaks - for 2 hours and in the middle of her shift where she'll most likely be.
He called me to tell me his choice. He chose wrong. I broke down on the phone, he promised he would work the other side of the bar and avoid all contact. I asked why would he choose that shift? And he said he could make an extra $75 to $100 there....I said - good - you might need it for the D lawyer. It was just a vent. But the thought of having to endure this every Friday and Saturday night indefinitely was overwhelming - and I took an Ativan to cope. He texted me throughout and all went well (NC).
When he left that bar, he texted me:
"I was going to wait to tell you this..."
Ugh - what now? I'm thinking to myself...
The next text said:
"but she's TRANSFERRED OUT!!!"
Another waitress told my H that she's now stewarding in the outlet restaurants. They have nothing to do with the floor bars, it's a completely different department - she found out she got the position tonight!!!
It starts in 2-3 weeks...I am sooo relieved!! Just hoping she doesn't embark on any last minute hail Mary fishing attempts!
Is it possible that I'm actually catching a break here?
Me - BW - 44
Him - FWH - 42
Married 16 years
D day - 1/2 truth - July 2012
Full disclosure - August 2012
EA with skanky waitress coworker
3 kids - 14, 16, 21
In R
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 4:38 AM on Saturday, May 25th, 2013
Great news, Nora. 
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
OptimisticWife ( member #36587) posted at 2:59 PM on Saturday, May 25th, 2013
Yay!! Happy for you
Dare2Trust ( member #21183) posted at 7:11 AM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Happy for you - Sure hope the transfer stands!
Me BS 59
WH 58
Married 19 years
D-Day Nov 3, 2005
Child: Adopted Daughter 21 College Student now
I can understand being alone; but I hate being with someone and feeling lonely.
Keepcalm ( member #36234) posted at 5:03 AM on Tuesday, May 28th, 2013
YEAHHH! Good things to you forever!
BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on
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