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bwok3 (original poster new member #38423) posted at 8:50 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
Not sure what else to say, but just riding this roller coaster of emotions.
maybe a 2x4 is needed, as i cant seem to stay off facebook, watching the 2 of them drool all over each other. Not sure why i;m doing it. Cant use against him, cuz the only people that matter are my kids and I would never do that. Any thoughts as to why i doing this?
ME: 46 BS
HIM: 49 WH
Married 28 years
Separated
DD 21
DS 27
D-day-1 1986-but still denies it to this day
OW#1 PA - I think it was just a one night stand
D-day 2 Sept 25-11
OW-#2 EA & other online crap
Filing for D soon
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 9:03 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
(((bwok)))
Please block them. It's like an accident. You don't want to look yet you feel a need to look anyway. I've been there. It's painful.
You don't need to see their fantasyland nonsense. They may be happy now, but that in no way means they will have a happy ending. Wait to see how they are once reality sets in and the rainbow unicorns leave.
Sending you strength.
[This message edited by jo2love at 3:06 PM, May 26th (Sunday)]
ButterflyGirl ( member #38377) posted at 9:54 PM on Sunday, May 26th, 2013
I think you are still looking for the why, trying to figure out what happened and why it happened. But there is just no good answer, and you are putting yourself in pain over something that honestly had nothing to do with you. Sounds like you are still trying to put the puzzle together in your head, but there will always be pieces missing, and at some point you need to put it together enough to where you can look at it and accept it and move on.
I definitely recommend you stop looking at the crap and find something better to do with your time. Sounds a little like you are still holding out hope, and you need to let it go.
On a side note, their Facebook sounds awful. They are drooling all over each other? Talk about too much PDA. Gross. I can't stand people who do that on Facebook. That tells me they are extremely insecure and feel the need to prove something to everyone.. But whatever is on there shouldn't matter to you anymore. Forget those clowns and work on finding more positive things to fill your time..
Hugs..
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