This Topic is Archived
rumorhasit (original poster member #38943) posted at 4:26 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2013
X's mom confronted him and told him she and I have our own relationship and to leave her out of whatever he and Mrs. Robinson are saying (her text said for me to not call his family.)
He apparently had no idea Mrs. Robinson had sent me a text. 
BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo
Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M
"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin
damncutekitty ( member #5929) posted at 4:33 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2013
Your MIL sounds awesome.
12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.
TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 8:43 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2013
Good for your MIL!!! I hope she continues to have a relationship with you. I think it was one of the hardest parts of D from XWH#1. I lost almost all of his family (my family for 20+yrs)except his brother and SIL. Now X-MIL wants me to be friends with her again because they are estranged. No thanks. She even sent me a Mother's Day Card. I don't do two-faced people very well and she is no longer MY problem.
XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 8:50 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2013
It is good to have inlaws like that. Just got off the phone with FIL who calls me regularly and has been giving me great advice.
Good for you your MIL is so wonderful.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 10:24 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2013
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
rumorhasit (original poster member #38943) posted at 10:36 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2013
Haha thanks! I agree, she is great. She's a very honest person and doesn't make excuses for her son (though she can't bring herself to kick him out)
DS and I just got home from visiting her and bringing her his two yr old portraits.
BGF- 30 (me)
WXBF- 30 (him)
Last Dday- 4-8-13, he left for OW#2
Us- 1 DS 3yo, Him- 1 DD 7yo
Mrs. Robinson- 41, S but still M
"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." - Christopher Robin
tabitha95 ( member #22033) posted at 11:50 PM on Thursday, May 30th, 2013
I love that it was his mom who outed the text. She sounds awesome.
I sure hope that X confronted Mrs. Robinson on that one.
I hate women who act like teenage girls.
BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).
lostmommy ( member #33440) posted at 6:51 PM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
That's awesome! I have a better realtionship with my MIL post-D than I did during the 14 years I was with her son. I tell her all the time that I'm glad I got her (and my BIL/SIL) in the divorce.
Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself
This Topic is Archived
