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Yakamishi (original poster member #38230) posted at 3:45 AM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
I hate my mood swings. One morning I feel so in love, like I'm on the edge of forgiving her. Tonight I'm in the dumps again. For virtually no reason. Is it too much to ask for a little consistency? Feel like I'm losing my mind sometimes. Still....after 8 months.
Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life
Lostinthismess ( member #39210) posted at 4:17 AM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
Ugh. I'm not that far out but yes. All in one day. I can't take it much more. I hate being a ticking time bomb. Even I don't know when I will go off!
'You just keep living, until you are alive again'
'I don't want perfect, I want honest'
TXwifemom ( member #37945) posted at 4:23 AM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
We have almost the same D day.
I'm in the same exact place. Pissed as hell, moody, crying, bitchy, mean.
Then loving, nice, supportive.
This sucks.
UKlady ( member #39058) posted at 11:30 AM on Friday, May 31st, 2013
I'm with you all on this too and I hate it as I've never been a moody person. However, I think I'm learning to grasp onto the good times and I'm hoping - and I've read as much - that eventually the good times do outweigh the bad.
My and my WH have had a few really, really bad days - I even told him I wish I'd never met him to which I thought he was going to have a heart attack it hurt him so badly - but then yesterday he was asking me about something completely non A related and I could see the torment in his eyes and unsureness(?) about asking and I had to laugh and tell him it was ok, I understood that he must feel he's walking on eggshells with me!
It's probably good - and I'm not in any position to be an expert (DDay 3rd Jan 2013) - to try to remember the good bits? Hang on to them in the darkest times.
I just now need to read my own advice and try to act on it!! 
Me: BW 45
Him: WH 48
Married: 6 years, together 9 years
D-day: 3 January 2013 - he confessed.
A: June-Dec 2012
No children.
westerly ( member #34280) posted at 2:42 AM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
ugh, amen. 2 months out, myself. First time it happened, mood swings lasted about 9-10 months. Hope you're at the tail end!
me- 39, American (BS)
her- 45, South American (WS)
1 child (my stepson)
EA discovered 3/10
D-day (PA discovered) 8/11
D-day II, April 8, 2013 (while overseas w/family)
Attempting R, despite relapse.
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