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Reconciliation :
Good step in the R direction!

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 lostandconfused4 (original poster new member #39315) posted at 12:41 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

One of the OW emailed my WH. I told him about it (he no longer has access to that account). We talked and decided that a NC was in order. As he starts to type it I start to tell him what it said (thinking that it will help him articulate the NC or rather not thinking I guess) and as I start to tell him he stops me. He says, "I don't need to know what it says, even just knowing about it is making me sick". He then drafted a very appropriate NC and I sent it. This may not seem big to everyone but considering that it was primarily about the ego boost for him before this is huge for him and for us.

me: 26 BW
him: 28 WH (patientarcher)
2 beautiful girls
D Day April 26th, 2013
In marriage, secrets are as dangerous as lies. Build your marriage on complete trust, honesty and communication

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RightTrack ( member #36976) posted at 12:50 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

That's great. I like that it made him feel sick. Is the OW married? Her BS should know too.

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 lostandconfused4 (original poster new member #39315) posted at 1:28 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

No she is not married. She probably had bfs for at least some of the time but no telling who they were or anything.

[This message edited by lostandconfused4 at 9:34 PM, June 2nd (Sunday)]

me: 26 BW
him: 28 WH (patientarcher)
2 beautiful girls
D Day April 26th, 2013
In marriage, secrets are as dangerous as lies. Build your marriage on complete trust, honesty and communication

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