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savvy (original poster member #39102) posted at 12:44 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
It's been a hard day. I have to do a colonoscopy prep. Yuck. And my kids are out today. Just feeling very lonely. Wh has called a couple times to see how I was doing , but I feel like he should be here , even though that's not the best thing now. We went out last night as a family it went well kept conversation to fun stuff. It was hard to say goodbye. He approached me with a kiss and said he loved me. Today is just hard would have been nice to get together with friends I hate this lonely feeling
me-BS (52).
2 children 24 and 23
Together 33 years divorced one year
Ow-(30)and she knew me knew he is married.
D-day 1 4/24/2013
D-day 2. 7/9/2013. Day after anniversary
D-day 3. 8/12/13.
Filing for divorce
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:06 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
((Savvy))
No advice. Good luck tomorrow.
Detach from him. Contact just makes it harder to step away and see things clearly.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 4:30 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
Good luck with your test tomorrow. Doing the prep is the absolute worse part IMHO. I'm glad that your dinner went well, but you know that you have to stay detatched until if and when, you see consistant actions. Doesn't make it any easier, I know. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 5:00 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:20 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 7:02 AM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
((((savvy))))
I am so sad for you.
I hope your procedure went well.
Hang in there.
WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...
Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
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