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Strange sense of relief

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 jojo42 (original poster member #37583) posted at 2:05 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

I am feeling a very strange sense of relief this morning now that I finally know everything that I've wanted to know for sure for so long...now that I actually have his phone in my possession instead of it always being the big mystery in the room...I've had my world turned upside down, and I'm a peace for the first time in months...weird

Me: 30, BS
Him: 30, WH
Married: 1 year, together for 7 years
1st child due in Sept 2013
DDay: 09/02/12, 09/22/12 admitted to EA ,false R, then 06/02/13 found out about PA & EA with same woman (OW is a coworker)
Hoping for R

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TrustGone ( member #36654) posted at 2:13 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

I am glad you are feeling better today, but don't get too used to it. Unfortunately more bad days are still waiting. They don't call it a roller coaster for nothing. Enjoy the good days when you can.

XWH#2-No longer my monkey Divorced 8/15, Now married to a wonderful man.
"A person is either an asset or a lesson"
"Changing who you are with does not change who you are"

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LonelyHusband ( member #34145) posted at 2:25 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013

I think this is normal. BSs crave the truth. No matter how agonising the truth is, knowing it is better than not knowing it.

Reconciling.
“A wizard is never late. Nor is he ever early. He arrives precisely when he means to".
Apparently not an appropriate reason for coming home drunk at 2AM.

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