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Douchebagfree (original poster member #39267) posted at 2:39 AM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
So today was interesting. After numerous texts back and forth about going to the lawyers so sign off on the sale of the house, I finally convinced him that we did not need to go together. That was exhausting.
I then asked him how much the penalty was to pay out the mortgage, he said he didn't know. Shocker! He texts back later and said that it would be 8k. I asked him if he was covering that? He said, no it's our house and our penalty. I told him that I was done paying his penalties. He didn't get it so I told him to learn to read between the lines 
Guess he didn't like that too much because he came over tonight like he told me he would. Probably expecting me not to be home. SURPRISE!
I didn't get the usual fake "hi" when he walked in. He went straight into the basement and has been banging around down there for the past hour.
I think he's mad
Sometimes you have to stand alone, just to make sure you still can.
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 3:22 AM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
Too bad douchebag - FTG.... 
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
Dark Inertia ( member #30727) posted at 5:01 AM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
Lol, I love your stories and the way you have been handling things. You take no shit.
Bravenewgirl ( member #36267) posted at 11:05 AM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
awwww...poor widdle D-bag!!! He didn't know that fucking your wife over would be so gosh darn EXPENSIVE. WAHHHHHHHHH!
DBFree...how dare you mess up his knocked up 22 year old rainbow unicorn fart fantasy with a cold dose of reality!? God, you are so mean...
Dear DBFree's WH: You shit the bed. Cleaning the sheets costs money. Grow the fuck up.
Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty
stronger08 ( member #16953) posted at 11:19 AM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
I really don't think they get that there are consequences to ones actions. When I first busted my XWW she was so fogged up she said I could have everything. She just wanted her freedom to pursue her soul mate OM. That lasted till he dumped her and she realized that fantasy don't pay the bills. Then she came at me with both barrels cocked and loaded. Cost me a small fortune, but worth every cent to rid myself of her cheating ass. In retrospect I should have ran to a lawyer and got something in writing. But exposing her ass was worth it.
You cant eat soup with chopsticks.
Douchebagfree (original poster member #39267) posted at 11:58 PM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
I've thought it over last night and I am going to the lawyer to sign off on the sale of the house. No point in dragging that part out and involving an innocent couple looking to move into their first home into our drama. HOWEVER, I told douchebag that the lawyer would be holding on to the proceeds from the sale of the house until we can reach an "understanding".
I also told him to consider that things could get a lot worse if a certain someone (his 22 year old pregnant girlfriend) found out the truth. His immediate response was "truth about what"? Oh I don't know dillusional muppet, how about the fact the you've been lying to her from day 1. I did not respond 
A few house sale texts later he asks "what is this truth you're talking about"! Again, I give him crickets 
He made a mess of the basement when he was here last night and after getting crickets twice, he then tells me that he has to come by tonight to take pictures of the deck. Ummm, you couldn't have done that yesterday when you were here? Perhaps he wants to talk about "the truth"? FTG. I'm going to give him the same response he's given me for years whenever I wanted to talk. I'll simply stare at him with a dumb look on my face and will say nothing!
Please send me some strength and patience tonight.
Sometimes you have to stand alone, just to make sure you still can.
debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 2:14 AM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013
Sending strength....let us know how it goes!
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:24 AM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013
Oh I don't know delusional muppet, how about the fact the you've been lying to her from day 1.
Delusional muppet. snort.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Dark Inertia ( member #30727) posted at 2:33 AM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013
You have been a model of strength. Good luck :)
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