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FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 7:48 PM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
I've been stealth-trolling on one of the sites (my profile is hidden).
I just peek occasionally and if someone new and attractive pops up I will send them a message.
So this week's prospect popped up with one very cute photo and very little info, claiming to be single.
(Clue #1)
He responded favourably to my initial salvo, so we get to chatting, mutual interest is biking.
He says "so now what" and I say "well, more pics of you for starters..."
He comes up with one really lame shot of him and his grown sons with his granddaughter.
(Clue #2)
Then he comes back with "wanna go for a bike ride?"
So I say "Um, no, not yet, more info required!" and proceeded with the "what happened with the mother of your kids" type questions, ending with "what brings you here".
Crickets.
(Clue #3)
Thank you SI for giving me so much smarts it's intuitive...
[This message edited by FaithFool at 1:50 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)]
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 9:43 PM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
You are braver than I am. I won't even put up a profile.
Yes we have learned many lessons from SI.I'm finally smart enough to use them too. 
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 10:31 PM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
I want a sweatshirt that says "SIU"... 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
TrustedHer ( member #23328) posted at 2:22 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013
http://siusalukis.cbscollegestore.com/product_enlarge.cfm?store_id=471&product_id=182885&image_num=1
My brother's Alma Mater...
Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 3:35 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013
SIU, the University no one wants to attend, but is so very glad they did!
[This message edited by better4me at 9:36 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 6:02 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013
Love it TR !!!
We do graduate with honors.
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 9:17 PM on Thursday, June 6th, 2013
SIU - that's perfect!
Ugh. I recently have been thinking about trying OLD, and each time I do I read one of you all's stories adn get spooked!!
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 4:02 AM on Friday, June 7th, 2013
I heard a statistic on the radio that a quarter of all marriages now start with OLD. And that those marriages that started in OLD last longer.
Well, good for you FF. This is your first OLD story I've heard. You have gotten a great education here!
You could also say you would enjoy a phone call...
BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
Betrayal ( member #9898) posted at 3:07 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013
Love it!
Me,38 BS
Divorced
Married
DS Born 9/6/10
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