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Reconciliation :
"I'm not that person anymore."

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 7:15 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013

..

hey wal,

..you could be doing kickass stand-up in NYC..

Henny Youngman would have followed with..

..(i'd better send it in a PM )

smy

trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!

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SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 7:49 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013

Hhhmmmm, funny...........my FWH has never said that. I wonder why?

BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson

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heforgotme ( member #38391) posted at 2:29 PM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013

WH says this and yes i believe him. He also says he hates that person and never wants to see him again.

D-Day 11/15/12
5 month PA
Married 20 years, 3 kids
All good is hard. All evil is easy. Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
- Scott Alexander
It was the day I thought I'd never get through - Daughtry

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twodoves ( member #39181) posted at 2:53 PM on Saturday, June 8th, 2013

After DD# 3 WH kept saying he doesn't want to be that person anymore.

I told him he can either keep 'wanting' it, or he can make the changes himself instead of waiting for them to happen to him.

Since then he's said ' i'm not that man anymore' many times.

Only time will tell.

Me - BS
Him - WS (N3v3rG1v1ngUp)
Together 7 years, married for 2
He was cheating for 5 years
5 OW
D-days: 4/23/13, 4/27/13, 5/10/13
1 toddler, baby girl on the way in December

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