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 Without12 (original poster new member #39427) posted at 2:35 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013

I asked ws to write a nc letter to op. He is still denying the ea but he wrote the nc. I will mail it certified today. I want to try to contact op's spouse. I would want to know so I want him to know. I think I'll write him a letter or try to send an email. Any ideas about what to write?

BS(me)38
WH 45
3 kids 8, 6, 1
M: Feb 2002
D-Day: 8/31/12

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simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 3:03 PM on Friday, June 7th, 2013

My best advice would be to keep it brief and keep out all emotions. Maybe just say something like - Our spouses had an EA from x-date to z-date, I have x=number of emails and texts proving their EA and other pieces of proof (for lack of a better word). If you would like I can make copies of what I have so that you have the same information I do. I am available at (this number) should you have any questions for me.

Good Luck.

(((HUGS)))

Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)

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