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ALittleLost (original poster member #36152) posted at 2:58 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013
So .... major temper tantrum. He is now trying ultimatums. I stay at your place or you send the kids to mine (in a country where i am not legally protected and could lose them should he decide to keep them). Now he is revisiting the terms of our divorce that he agreed to .... he needs to make sure they are "fair".
Something else is going on here ... he is lying to someone about something and trying to manipulate me so that he can keep up the facade.
Who is this guy???
BS Me 42
Married 12 years (on my own since 2012)
DS1 11 yrs, DS2 5 yrs
DD1 Sep 2011 all a lie
DD2 Jun 2012 found his secret email
3 Confirmed EA/PA over span of 2.5 yrs
Status: D
confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 4:11 PM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013
^^That sounds like a threat.
What's to stop him from visiting the kids and leaving the country with them?
Trust your gut..if you think something else is going on here,it is.
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
nolight ( member #32785) posted at 10:57 PM on Friday, June 14th, 2013
He is showing you exactly why he should not be allowed in your home. Perhaps you could say to him that these were the terms we agreed on, if you wish to reneg you will need to go through our lawyers. I would also only communicate with him via text or email so you have an electronic trail of his behaviour.
We make our own fortunes and call them fate, and what better excuse to choose a path then to insist it's our destiny.
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