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Whalers11 ( member #27544) posted at 10:47 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Mine did. She only knew my WxSO for 4 months at the time...don't think she knew what she was getting herself into.
stunnedin12 ( member #38141) posted at 10:52 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Oh, for sure.
Not only did chickie want children,she wanted children the same way wh and I had them!
Adopted, bio, foster, blah, blah, blah .....
They even discussed the hows, whys, length of wait, etc.
Weasels.
ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Lawyers involved.
keeponkeepingon ( member #32935) posted at 10:55 PM on Tuesday, June 11th, 2013
Absolutely! She wanted to get pregnant. It is amazing that she didn't because they were also part of the club that used no protection. 
TicK had a very young child already. She kept telling MrKOKO what a great father he was. Was he now?!?! So great that he ditched his kid to be with his TicK on Father's Day, on NYE, and on Easter. That's a great dad for ya!
TicK saw MrKOKO as her next meal ticket. She kept telling him that she wanted to start a "new family" with him.
And I also agree that I probably could not have R with him had an OC been part of the story. I feared for DS that MrKOKO would have another child.
"I know you and you know me and I know you can see. So help me get my way back to you"
Sue1964 ( member #37057) posted at 12:05 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Thank god my h ow got her tubes tied.at least that's a blessing in disguise. 
roughroadahead ( member #36060) posted at 12:26 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Not sure. WH's PA started when our DD was 14 or 15 months old. Fortunately, he'd had a vasectomy when she was 4 months old. WH has no desire to have any more children, and MOW has two preteens with her stbx BH. MOW is also 44, so I'm not sure that her chances would be that good regardless of the vasectomy.
I cannot imagine the horror of a pregnant OW.
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BS-Me 30s
WS-Him 30s
D-Day 4/2012 (Insisted EA only)
D-Day 5/2012 (Did I say EA? Ummm..)
Numerous other TT/broken NC d-days until S 1/2013. D settled 11/2013
MOW-coworker, 40s.
2 DS and DD all w/autism
movingforward13 ( member #38405) posted at 1:53 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
No. His AP is in medical school. Getting pregnant right now would fuck up everything she has going. Thankfully she isn't that stupid.
Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!
scared&stronger ( member #15942) posted at 3:46 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Yup. That has been her M.O. for every relationship she has had. 5 babies...4 fathers. If she had a uterus I would be in prison.
WS 45
BS 43
Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.
d-day 4-3-07
Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.
AussieMum ( member #36579) posted at 5:20 AM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
I think OW#1 would have wanted to get pregnant. STBX actually told me that the only reason it didn't turn into a PA was because he didn't want to risk her getting pregnant. Gee, thanks In a way I wish she had been pregnant, he would have been horrified and devastated and I would have laughed in his face.
During false R, he got a vasectomy. He was by then in regular contact with OW2 so it was all for her, not me.
Me 47
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS13 & DD8)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 12:52 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
Absolutely.
However OW has had her tubes done so I have been told anyway.
But I made xwh have a vasectomy after I busted after the previous affair. My reasoning was you want f**k around on me is one thing, but our children shouldn't have to share their father with another family. Luckily he was still in guilt mode when he did this.
Now in hindsight this was probably a stupid idea on my part because at least he was stealing our condoms for protection. After the V we no longer needed them, however this didn't protect me from any potential diseases.
Luckily he didn't bring anything home to me. But one doesn't think of these things when you are married you are supposed to be able to trust your spouse.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
MrsDoubtfire (original poster member #24786) posted at 2:14 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013
If she had a uterus I would be in prison.
It's scary how mashed up some of these ow are!!
BS(Me) FWH(Him) DDay 05.09
A went underground. True R 02.10
I won't let another woman reap the benefit of enjoying the man my H has now become†
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