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Any body's H OW look like you? I pushed my H away for years. He really didnt do anything for me sexually. Now his AP looks like me only he has sex all the time. Weird?

Oh forgot to mention. Seperated and I filled for D. He left for her on our sons 14th BDay! The actual fucken day! Selfish. But glad hes gone

The wannabe looks a lot like me, except she's barely 5 ft tall. I'm 5ft 7.

My ex fiance's wifetress looks EXACTLY like me.

My friends all said "he married an OLDER version of you."

Nope. Both AP's

are about as different from me as you can get.

[This message edited by confused615 at 11:09 AM, June 12th (Wednesday)]

100% different.

Yes, OW has features like I do, same age, coloring, and a child same age and features as mine and his, but is apparently a giant form.

STBX felt it necessary for me to know these tidbits that I did not need or want to hear.

After seeing her photo, many people told me, "you are so much prettier!" Why did that feel so double-edged?

Yet apparently, there are opposite things about the woman, too.

Yes, one of WH's whores looks something like me.

opposite. But strange thing is ,OW looks like a past slut of his when he was single. ANd OW#2,(flirtations out of control ) also looked exactly like them. I have seen them all in person. They dont look like me, exact opposite, but hes attracted to the same look . its a slut look. And they are very slutty. SAme color hair, same hair cut, same figure type, same height. I always know immediately. A fantasy whore.

I don't get it either. My WH pick a woman who was just a couple years younger, a little shorter but same body type, hair color & eye color. I mean WTF is up with that?? If anybody has the answer I would sure LOVE to know.

She is the younger taller smaller boobed version of me. Even personality wise she was like me. The husband told me she was like me when we first got married.

Thanks pal.

I would say they were all similar to who I was when I met him, but completely opposite of who I am now. He did not like my independence at all. He needs abused and emotionally broken women to suck in and feel sorry for him, to admire him, and think that he is a great guy. I told him he can have them because I can't downshift that fast. I admit that is who I was when I was 18 years old and emotionally broken from my parents divorce. I was very plain and simple. I am now a very successful woman that cares about myself and my looks..and he told me to gain weight. He likes and needs very insecure individuals surrounding him to make him feel powerful.

Yes but 50% bigger.

Yes; she's a blander, shorter version of me

Main OW had my hair cut and color. She outweighs me by quite a bit. We are almost exactly the same age. Last OW cut and dyed her hair to look just like mine less than a month after she outed their A. She is thinner than me and is working toward the same degree I already have. The other local one looks and acts nothing like me. The online women, I have no idea. Their profile pictures were not of their faces.

Yeah, OW could practically be my younger sister. Same build, hair color, hair length, eye color, even the same dimple. We have the same advanced degree in the same subject. Scary stuff.

Thankfully, I know I am a better person than she is as I'd never do what she did. The only thing that really bothers me about us looking so similar is that I'm sure people assume she is the kids mom when they are out playing happy family. That makes me insane!

No. Opposite.

MOW was 6" taller. Heavier apple shape with no waist. Short butch hair dyed the color of Ronald McDonald. Gigantic fake boobs that sag and have stretch marks. Multiple tattoos and private parts pierced. Homely.

I'm petite, 23" waist, long, natural very dark auburn hair and my breasts are an average size but still pert. No tattoos. Nothing pierced but my ears. I'm no Giselle, but I still turn heads.

BUT WH did try to morph her as much as he could in to me.

Wanted her to grow her hair longer and dye it my color. REALLY worked hard to try and get her to wear the same underwear I do. Offered to find a plastic surgeon for her to reverse her really bad boob job and clean up the scars and do lipo and a tummy tuck on her.

I really laughed when I read that offer in their skype chat. She didn't seem too overwhelmed by his generous offer I hope it still haunts her.

Yep we have similar features, but she is fatter and shorter then me & 2 years older then me.

And he is a hell of lot angrier then he ever.

I don't get it. But not my problem anymore.

Yup.

But, a shorter, fatter, busted up version of me. She looks my age, while I look her age. And she dresses her self like a misfit. I shudder every time I've see pictures.

Actual quote from one of our friends "WTF? She ain't shit compared to you". And that came from somebody who liked XH way more than she liked me.

Yes, OW looks quite a bit like me except for the fucked up face she has. She dyed her hair and cut it to look just like mine shortly after the D Day! Wow! You really want my life that bad.