Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: Starrystarrynight

Reconciliation :
Obsessing/Searching - Found ons - Do I say anything??

This Topic is Archived
default

 bewildered22 (original poster new member #36487) posted at 11:17 PM on Wednesday, June 12th, 2013

I have been obsessing again lately..I guess it may be because one year DD is this month. When I found out about the ONS I became obsessed with identifying these people. One was a women who was engaged to WH friend...she new he was married, had kids etc. This was over 20 years ago. I couldn't find her then..but..I just located her on facebook. I just want to tell her that I know and what I think about her. She actually invited us to her wedding..WTF..and we went. Just wondering what all you BS would do.

posts: 19   ·   registered: Aug. 14th, 2012
id 6371927
default

redrock ( member #21538) posted at 1:53 AM on Thursday, June 13th, 2013

It is hard to answer a question like that for you. If you really want to get something off your chest and have taken the time to consider the outcomes and still want to do it. then do it.

Do you have expectations attached to having your say?

Are you looking for an apology? It bears some consideration before taking the action.

I never did contact the single OW.

But I have read many threads on this site where posters got information from or had their say to the OW and were glad they had the experience.

It really is up to you.

I don't respect anyone that can't spell a word more than one way:)

posts: 3536   ·   registered: Nov. 6th, 2008   ·   location: Michigan
id 6372072
This Topic is Archived
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20250404a 2002-2025 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy