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Fallen ( member #4313) posted at 5:06 AM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013
Yeah, but you know what? MrsP isn't your WS, so she doesn't have anything to prove to you or any other BS here- none of us do. So I understand your point, but she knows what she's been through to heal from this mess. I know what I've been through to heal from this mess, and I know that I will never treat my husband or myself so horribly again. Ironic, sure. But I don't need anyone to point that out to me. It's abundantly clear every day to me, as it is to every remorseful WS. Just sayin.
You can't heal what you won't feel.
"There would be no grand absolution, only forgiveness meted out in these precious sips. It would well up from his heart in spoonfuls, and he would feed it to me. And it would be enough."
cdnmommy ( member #30182) posted at 9:41 AM on Sunday, June 16th, 2013
..I am not sure I seem different at all. I reassure, I keep him up on what's going on, I don't shut down. But I doubt I seem different to him.
I'm sure all of the little things add up. I know they do with my FWH.
(((MrsP)))
Me: BW
DDay: Oct 2010 + 6 weeks false R
2.5 (+?) year A with married coworker/my "friend"
2 great kids
Reconciling and healing
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