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Brand new car but can't afford Pre-School

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 lostmommy (original poster member #33440) posted at 7:56 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2013

I'm supposed to feel bad for the idiot that is driving around in a brand new Subaru but can't afford to give me $267 a month for pre-school for our son (that's a 50/50 split). I'll take him to court because it's in our paperwork, but it amazes me that he has the audacity to cry poverty. Here's a thought fuckwad... make your wife get a job. I told him it wasn't up to me to tell him how to get the money, but I was sure he could figure out a way.

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 8:17 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2013

I hear ya!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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Ashland13 ( member #38378) posted at 8:35 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2013

That's going on here too, where I'm counting chips while he takes DD on four hour road trips, restaurants all weekend and new toys come home. We each need clothes and some other necessities and are going without, while he continues to spend...and that's not only his own eating out that's constant, who knows what goes on "over there" for spending...I stopped looking at the credit reports when it became a trigger.

I'm sorry and I hope you win!

Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington

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 lostmommy (original poster member #33440) posted at 8:47 PM on Monday, June 17th, 2013

They're just so stupid. They really need a dose of reality. I hope it comes soon.

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 1:16 AM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Be sure you have a photo of his new car and a printout from Kelly Blue Book as to it's cost when you go back to court. Asshole.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


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 lostmommy (original poster member #33440) posted at 7:16 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Good thinking! I didn't even think of that!

Me (BS): 32, Mommy to J: 2 1/2 Divorced: 4/10/13
Sometimes you find yourself in the middle of nowhere, and sometimes, in the middle of nowhere, you find yourself

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