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Reconciliation :
A small victory

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 Markay81 (original poster new member #39387) posted at 7:09 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Ok this probably doesn't sound like much. We used to joke (not so much now) that my WH is a emotional cripple. 2 emotions happy or mad. Anyways, we work different shifts. Him really early and me the late shift. I woke up this morning to a short note on my bedside.

Bade, I love you so much. I am truly grateful for the 2nd chance you are giving to me. I will not let you down this time. Love Always & Forever, Me

Now I know this wouldn't mean much to some people. But knowing my H the way I do this is huge. So I am taking this small victory and holding on to it.

Ugh! Sometimes reality sucks.
BS (me) 31
WH (him) 33
OW - married Bar Whore Rig Rat
Married 14 years
3 amazing kids
DDay-3/03/2013 TT.The whole truth came out(hopefully) 06/09/2013
Currently on the roller coaster of R.

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authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 7:13 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

It's the little things that are the big things!

Good for you and good for H!

DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 7:13 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

That is huge, actually. For him to step outside his comfort zone and do something that is proactive and healing for you.

YAY Mr. Markay! Good job!

Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 7:19 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Beautiful

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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Chefj9 ( member #38604) posted at 7:50 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

Happy for you! It's the little things....

ME - BS 50, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 26,16, 15 and 13
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

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