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Divorce/Separation :
Here we go, OW making moves on the kids..

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 fraeuken (original poster member #30742) posted at 9:30 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013

The games have begun I guess.

First OW involved herself in DD's Sweet 16 party planning. Now she is pursuing DD10 on Skype, enticing her to Skype while we are visiting my family and sending her messages about how awesome my DD is. Did I mention she talks and skypes like teenager?

Deep breath, this woman annoys me beyond words.

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 9:32 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013

I would put a HALT to it REAL quick. Not on your watch.... which is most of all the time. HELL NO.

Tell that HoBag to grow up and leave DD10 alone. These woman have alot of damn nerves.

BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

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SBB ( member #35229) posted at 11:15 PM on Wednesday, June 19th, 2013

Why on earth is she intruding on your family time?

I'd be blocking OWs Skype - if it is one their dad uses to communicate I would block during my time and unblock when I'm expecting a call.

I am glad she is not being unkind - she is still being manipulative as hell.

Deep breaths - this would bother me too but you can't let it get to you. Your DD is awesome and anyone IS lucky to be a part of her life.

I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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 fraeuken (original poster member #30742) posted at 2:25 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013

Did put a stop to it. What a turd. She knows full well the kids and I are visiting the grandparents in Europe. She just seems to have to push her way into their lives. I guess there will be more where that came from...

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:13 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013

Yep. That's going on with my kids as well. I just have to keep telling myself, "At least she's being nice, at least she's being nice..."

It doesn't make it any less annoying, though. I'm still hoping that the OW in my situation comes to her senses and abandons STBX's ship before it sinks in a horrific way that will hurt both her children and mine, but considering that she also acts like a teenager (including the Skyping with my kids, though not on my time), I don't think that's going to happen.

FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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ruinedandbroken ( member #29250) posted at 3:14 AM on Thursday, June 20th, 2013

Oh HEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL NO!!!!

“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21

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