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Reconciliation :
Poly tonight - wish us luck :-(

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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 1:31 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013

Terrific update!

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Spelljean ( member #35624) posted at 1:32 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

So glad!! This will help you move to the next phase of R.

WH: 41
me: BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY 8/2/12
OW: EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated

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painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 1:35 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

Congrats!

However, I am curious. What questions were asked?


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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 sodamnlost (original poster member #37190) posted at 2:42 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

What questions were asked?

Since he lied to me for MONTHS after Dday, I had some issues I just didn't believe his story on. That drove most of the questions.

~Are AP and I the only ones you have had a sexual relationship with since we moved in together? Answer - yes)

~Have you had contact with AP since dday, other than the texts he showed me immediately? (answer - no)

~Have you met or tried to meet any women since Dday? (answer - no)

~Did you meet with AP any times other than the 3 I know about? (answer - no)

Not exactly how it was worded but that's the basics.

Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016


Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an

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painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 3:40 PM on Saturday, June 22nd, 2013

Wow! That's fantastic. I am so happy for you! This should go a long way towards healing.


D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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