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IGaveItMyAll ( member #38622) posted at 6:13 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
((Rocketqueen)) Let me give you a little advice. I too used to be cautious about my feeling from the A. I didn't want to keep bringing it up. But I think stuffing it will cause us both more harm than good. If you can find a good MC do it!! Our MC has been doing wonders for us. Its someone who can call us both out when I am being unreasonable and most get to the core of the relationship problems. Cause that is part of this sticky mess.
As far as wanting your WH to do more i.e. read, IC etc. There are some awesome people on here and one gave me a great quote the other day. You can lead a horse to the water, shove their face it in and you will just get kicked.
Definitely talk about how you are feeling. If he doesn';t listen try the 180. I am doing it now and it is crazy to see the power switch. Best of Luck!!!
ME-BS 34
FWW-28
M 6 Yrs
DDAY- 8/20/12
R
Rocketqueen (original poster new member #38119) posted at 7:02 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
IGaveItMyAll, I have thought about that phrase for a while and I guess I can't figure out why my horse just turns and walks away instead of drinking 
I think I will continue with the 180 and research MC's for just in case.
Thank you! I'll let you know how it goes
Married 6/16/01
10/25/11- trouble in the air
DDay 11/15/11 -she's "just a friend" co-worker
1/18/12 - continued contact - kicked WH out of house
1/29/12 WH admitted to PA
3/7/12 NC letter sent
Working on recovery
WoundedOpus ( member #39521) posted at 7:19 PM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
Rocketqueen, I have not. But if his efforts fizzle out, or he is indeed just doing damage control, then that's exactly where I'm headed!
Me: BW 37
Him: WH 38
(DDay: 2/2008)
13 years, 5 kids...Seven years of Limbo
“I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I have just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." ~ Diane Ackerman
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