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lieshurt (original poster member #14003) posted at 12:07 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
Today, I read this on Facebook and thought this could be food for thought for many of us:
If you are single, focus on being a better you instead of looking for someone better than your ex. A better you will attract a better next.
[This message edited by lieshurt at 6:07 PM, June 20th (Thursday)]
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:10 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
I like that quote. I'm working on me. If I'm destined to be with someone, it will happen when the time is right. Till then, I'm vegging with myself. 
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 12:32 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
Vegging here. Maybe permanently and I don't care. 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:56 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
Veggin here... and it's ok.. learning a lot about me.
Hugs,
k
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 3:01 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
Vegging!
I really like it. It's so peaceful. I feel like my home life is so much happier, and I love that I feel less pressure because I'm not in a soul-sucking relationship, trying to date, anxiously dating someone, etc.
*sigh of contentment*
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
MyVoice ( member #35695) posted at 3:06 AM on Friday, June 21st, 2013
yes yes and yes 
Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown
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